10 Things Every Struggling Artist Needs to Know

Imagine there are 2 men who set out on a mission to climb to the top of Success Mountain.

There is no easy path to the top of Success Mountain.

No road has been paved. These men will have to make it to the top all on their own.

These men do not know each other. Their only goal is to get to the top of Success Mountain no matter what.

These men are also very jealous of the glory (they want it all for themselves) so they tell no one else about the path they plan to take.

Because only one man can climb one path to the top of Success Mountain, they start at different entry points at the bottom of the mountain.

These 2 men take their very different paths, they pass through each un-passable pass, they make it through every bit of adversity.

Finally they reach the top of Success Mountain and give each other a high-five.

They are happy to meet each other because they are the only two who actually made it to the top. Though thousands of other men tried and failed to climb to success, these men stuck with it until the end.

Even though they took separate paths, they each passed through their own series of obstacles to overcome adversity. They give each other a laugh because they know that quitting is the only way to fail.

All the quitter’s gave up and said “I took the wrong way and had to climb down so I could start again.”

HAHA!

Our 2 heroes laugh at the pathetic excuses. The heroes know that there is no right way or wrong way.

The path you take is meaningless because all paths, taken to the end, lead to the same place.

The only way you cannot end up at the same place (the top of Success Mountain) is if you turn around and go back down before you reach the top.

These 10 important tips for starving artists will ensure you do not quit before you reach the top…

1) There is no one-way to success

Everyone wants to know the rules and the laws of success.

Very few understand that rules are meant to be broken and laws are only abided by the law-abiders.

It takes a rebel to achieve the mega-success that you want.

We all want to think that there is one secret rule that will guarantee you success.

And if there was one rule that absolutely guarantees success it is this: There are no rules.

Everything is dual; Everything has poles; Everything has its pair of opposites; Like and unlike are the same; Opposites are identical in nature, but different in degree; Extremes meet; All truths, are but half-truths; All paradoxes may be reconciled.” – Hermes the Thrice Great

And as an artist your job is to turn a half-truth into a full-truth. You must reconcile paradox.

“You can’t do it this way, you have to do it that way!” is wrong.

All paths lead to the same destination. Climb and you will reach the top. Don’t climb and you will stay at the bottom.

What is important is that you become like the Little Engine That Could and you choo-choo choose your path and you follow it until the end.

2) A strong opinion is what makes an artist

I always tell you “you must do it this way to get your way!” but that is a lie I tell you.

I tell you this lie because as an artist you must have an opinion.

Having a strong opinion is key to artistry.

If you do not have a strong opinion, what will you communicate? Nothing!

Everything worth communicating is a strong opinion, one way or the other.

It does not matter what the opinion is, it only matters that it is strong and you believe in it.

If you are not willing to go too far you will never get far enough.” – Chael Sonnen

Middle of the road types will not succeed as anything other than middle managers in fluorescent offices.

3) Originality is over-rated, copying is key

When you start out, it’s important to just start. However, a new artist has no idea how to start.

Therefore it is perfectly acceptable for a new artist to copy another artist. This way, the artist will learn what to do and what not to do.

In the beginning, no one is original and everybody copies. In time, the aspiring artist will develop his own taste and talents and he will become original.

So many people have been mad at other blog artists who copy the great work of Bold and Determined but copycats have never bothered me.

I’ve always understood that when you start you have to follow some sort of guideline. It is only in time that the true artist develops his true voice and true abilities.

What kind of artist would Michelangelo be if he did not first start out by painting the same landscapes and portraits that everybody else painted?

If you start out trying to be original you’re going to be nothing.

Everybody has to learn the basics and copying is how you learn them.

Copying is more like an internship. It is your time for learning your craft.

Copy away, young maestro.

4) Copying will lead to failure, originality is key

Copying in the long-term is a losing strategy.

Yes, you have to copy at first just to learn your craft.

However, the only way to master your craft is to do it in a way that nobody else is doing.

To create art in a way that nobody else is doing you need 2 things:

  1. A mastery of the basics (learned via copying)
  2. And one slight twist that nobody else is doing

It doesn’t take some gigantic new way to create a masterpiece, it only takes a slight twist to create something that is entirely new.

5) Stop thinking big and start thinking small

So many would-be artists believe that they need to think big to achieve their dreams.

This belief neuters the artist’s ability to create great work.

Instead of creating something, they create nothing because they are waiting for some divine inspiration to create the next Sistine Chapel.

Michelangelo himself did not start out thinking big, he started out by painting flowers and learning the craft of art.

The great master started by painting houses, portraits, flowers, landscapes etc., just like everybody else.

It is only in time that the great separate from the average.

Everyone has to start at exactly the same place – the bottom – and climb from there.

To create something great big takes a great big amount of time.

And in that time you must be creating small pieces of art. This is how you learn and how you grow.

You can’t go from creating nothing to creating greatness overnight.

It takes many years of creating small achievement and building up to your great big work.

The belief that you need to create a great big work immediately neuters the would-be artist and this belief has to be killed.

Do not try to think big, instead think small. Do small works every day.

The magic of thinking small leads to big changes in your life and in your art.

6) Always be deaf to critics

Stop listening to critics because if you do listen to them you will never create anything new.

Critics exist only to ensure you do not color outside of the lines.

Critics are incapable of original or creative thought and they have a need to fit in with the masses.

Listening to the critics say “But nobody else is doing it this way!” will kill your chances of success.

If nobody else is doing it that way, that’s exactly the way you want to do it.

7) There is no guarantee

So many would-be artists quit before they start because they never get a guarantee of success.

Guess what? You will never get a guarantee of success.

That is because success only comes to those who have the nuts and the guts to go their own way and create their own success.

If success guarantees existed then everybody would be a success, wouldn’t they?

If there were “sure things” then everybody would follow them and poverty and starving artistry would vanish overnight.

In fact, there is only one sure thing in the world: No risk, no reward.

The reality is that success is only for the few and the brave.

The weak and the cowardly will never achieve success, and don’t deserve success, because they never took the initial risk that sparks the rewards.

You have to be a go-getter and go get it.

8) Creating great art isn’t hard, but starting is

Don’t you know what the great Lao Tzu said?

Your journey of a thousand long miles begins with a single step.

Once you begin your journey it is not difficult.

The only hard part is making that very first step.

So many people quit before they even start because they cannot make that first step.

9) You have to work for the future, not for today

Being a great artist (via word, painting, audio, or video) is about creating a legacy.

Legacy is more important than creating outrage today.

Todays come and go, the future is forever. Working for the future is the key to greatness.

Working for today leads you to create art that comes and goes and is unimportant in the long run. There are topics of interest that will forever have an audience.

We call these topics “evergreen”.

Concentrating on the topics of today will always date your art in the long run.

Doing political commentary today means in 5 years your work is completely dated and meaningless.

Concentrating on work that is always popular ensures your art will have a new audience forever.

And this, young maestro, is how you create the great work that keeps you remembered through the ages.

10) The only barrier to success is yourself

Failures love to blame everybody for their failures.

Well, almost everybody.

They always forget to blame the real person who is responsible for their failure: themselves.

If you want to see the person who is holding you back, go to a mirror and look directly into your own eyes. That person is your biggest enemy to success.

It is self-sabotage that kills art careers before they ever get started.

Before laying the blame on others, you’ve got to overcome self-sabotage and conquer your fear of success.

Say to yourself, “I can do it, I will do it, and nobody will stop me.”

Say it enough and it will become true.

BONUS #11) Success is a manifestation of your will

You must will your great work into existence because it will not come to existence any other way.

That is how magic works – you say it enough that you come to believe it, and when you believe it it comes true.

Like the great creator who says to a thing “be” and it becomes.

If you concentrate on it, you can make it true.

After Michelangelo, after Lao Tzu, is, perhaps, you.

But only if you want it to be you.

Until next time.

Your man,

-Victor Pride

#1 Piece of Advice For 18 Year Olds… And Anybody Else Who Wants To Live Without Regret

When 18 year old boys email me asking for advice the number one thing they feel is REGRET.

They feel regret for what they think is a wasted opportunity.

They feel like they didn’t act soon enough, now it’s too late for them and that it’s all over. 

I got bad news for you, boys…

It probably is over for you … unless you do something about it right now.

You’re 18 and you have your whole life in front of you but that does not change this one iron-clad rule of life: IT’S NOW OR NEVER. 

When you’re a young gun you feel like every move is life or death. You feel like:

“I have to do it now because tomorrow is too late.”

And that’s the right attitude to have. You gotta go now and if you don’t, you’re stuck forever.

I could lie and say you have all the time in the world but you don’t have all the time in the world.

If you don’t take action today you will regret it tomorrow, like everybody else does.

From young Alexander to ol’ Grandpa Joe…

Most people feel regret and do nothing about it.

Do you know what emotion dying people experience the most?

REGRET.

Dying people made bad decisions and wasted their entire lives. On their death bed it hits them like a ton of bricks…

“Oh my God. What did I do with my life?”

Imagine living your whole life and never doing what you’re meant to do, never fulfilling your destiny and being a slave your whole life. Ouch.

Feeling regret right now is totally normal. It’s also totally normal to feel regret when you die. In fact…

It’s totally normal to live your entire life feeling regret.

What’s not normal is living life without regrets, being free and being happy. 

See, people naturally don’t live up to their potential.

They feel like they can always “do it later.”

But laziness and inaction catches up to everyone … and all of a sudden later comes and they haven’t done anything.

Tomorrow you must answer for what you did today.

If what you did today wasn’t enough, then you can expect a visit from the regret fairy tomorrow.

You feel regret now? GOOD. You should feel regret. Use it as fuel.

Feeling regretful for missing an opportunity is the right thing to feel.

Your body is saying to you “we missed this one, don’t miss the next one.”

If you don’t take action today you will regret it tomorrow.

The decisions you make and the actions you take right now decide what will happen to you tomorrow.

ALL YOU HAVE IS RIGHT NOW.

You have right now and that’s all you have.

If you waste too many of your todays you’ll be on your deathbed tomorrow crying about your wasted life just like Grandpa Joe.

But it doesn’t have to be that way…

I said a million billion times already you have a million billion opportunities today that didn’t exist even ten years ago.

You can be a passenger or you can be a driver and it’s entirely up to you.

You don’t have to follow the same path that Grandpa Joe followed, he came from a different era. His opportunities were far less than yours.

Grandpa Joe did what he HAD to do. You can do what you WANT to do.

Can you spot the difference?

Grandpa Joe didn’t have much of a choice and he regretted it when he died.

When you die, with all the choice you have, will you regret it too?

If you don’t want to feel regret you have to live life by this one principle:

ALL YOU HAVE IS RIGHT NOW. 

Right now, you youngsters and many other people feel intense regret.

You feel like you waited too long, missed an opportunity and it’s over for you.

You’re partially right. You may have missed an opportunity but new ones will emerge.

The trick is to let your regret fuel you into not missing another opportunity.

Your brain is saying “we missed the last one, don’t miss this next one” and you gotta listen.

Each second you wait is a second you waste and you may not get another one.

A wasted opportunity is a wasted opportunity no matter how old you are.

Just because “you have your whole life ahead of you” doesn’t mean you can be lazy and slow because you cannot be lazy and slow.

If you’re lazy and slow, the next thing you know you’ll be on the deathbed and you’ll be saying “Oh my God, I wish I had done this or that…”

But by then it’s too late.

It’s now or never and you have to start right now.

Yesterday don’t mean shit and tomorrow don’t mean much more.

It’s all about right now and right now I will show you the #1 rule you must follow to live life well….

The #1 rule to live well:

ALL YOU HAVE IS RIGHT NOW.

Make it count.

Until next time.

Your man,
-Victor Pride

PS – There are 2 articles coming soon that you will love.

1. 18 Years Old? How to Earn a College Degree Without Earning a College Degree. It’s for 18 year olds specifically. You’ll love it.

2. The Top 5 Regrets Of The Dying (and how to live with no regrets). This article shows you the powerful top 5 regrets of dying men and I show you how you can turn those 5 regrets into fuel for a great life.

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“I Have Big Dreams”

I have big dreams of blah blah blah..

That’s great, friend. Dreams are lovely. I often have dreams of battling a Minotaur with a big broadsword, but then I wake up and go to work.

Dreams are about as meaningful as “hope” and “change”.

Dreams are a way for dreamers to never face reality.

Dreams are for those who do not, or cannot, take action. Dreamers stay in dreamland rather than taking concrete steps to achieve a goal or series of goals.

Men of action got that way by taking ACTION.

Dreamers got to their position by daydreaming and fooling around rather than planning and doing.

Doers plan actions and then accomplish those plans.

Dreams are what happen when you are asleep.

When you are awake you take action. You make life happen.

Famous actors didn’t have dreams of becoming famous, they had plans. Dream actors live in the Midwest and read celebrity magazines, working in an office but dreaming of stardom. Doers move to Hollywood or New York City and do something every single day to further their goals.

Maybe yesterday you were a dreamer. Today, right now, is your time to become a doer. What action can you take today, right now, to further your goals? Go ahead and do it.

One action a day keeps the dreaming away.

If yesterday you were a fatso, today you will exercise and eat right. If yesterday you were a skinny wimp, today you will go to the gym and lift weights. If yesterday you were running your mouth about your dreams, today you will shut up and accomplish one thing to further your goals.

Today is the day you become a planner, an architect of your destiny, a mastermind of fate. Yesterday doesn’t mean anything and tomorrow is too far away. Right now is what counts. You spend it dreaming or you spend it doing.

Like the movie says, “Get busy living, or get busy dying“.

You have big dreams?

Keep dreaming, girly.

Men are busy taking action.

Gorilla Mindset: A Review Of The Mental Strategies You Need To Succeed In Life

I’ve been spending a lot of time in a mountain town in Vietnam called Dalat.

Dalat was created in the late 19th century as a cool-air health resort city and is now famous for farming.

I’m here enjoying the cool weather and looking at agricultural investment opportunities.

In the surrounding mountains of Dalat are tribes of ethnic Vietnamese farmers.

The farmers are very poor. So poor I can barely explain to westerners how poor.

So poor that they have never been inside of a restaurant. If they’re able to purchase food, they purchase food that has been cooked on the side of the street and sold from a bicycle.

It was at a local gym I met one of these farmers.

(The gym smells like cat urine and is filled with weights you wouldn’t find at the worst USA gym. I pay 75 cents per day to visit, and that’s foreigner price, so I assume Vietnamese pay 25 cents per day.)

The ethnic Vietnamese boy was the fellow in the gym with the 2nd best physique.

I introduced myself to him with the international sign for “good physique” which is a thumbs-up.

We exchanged names and pleasantries in broken english, and I asked him what supplements he takes (knowing full well that the supplements available for sale at the gym have an inch of dust on them).

He said “no, nothing, I only eat a little rice. Nothing else.

I said “what about protein?

He said “no, nothing.

I said “how about Chicken?

He said “no, only when I have a little money can I eat chicken. Every day I just eat a little rice and every day I must do some very hard work” and with a big smile he said to me “I am farmer“.

Vietnamese Bodybuilder

A lot of people would look at his physique, which is very, very good, and the first thing they would say is…

“Wow, he has good genetics”.

When it comes to muscle shape and muscle insertion, genetics can be a big help – but genetics don’t drive you to the gym.

Each time I’ve been to this gym at night I have seen the farmer boy working hard (I have never seen him in the daytime at the gym).

It takes quite a bit of cognitive dissonance to say the farmer boy has a good physique because of good genetics….

…knowing that he goes to the gym every day and lifts weights, he diets constantly and he does physical labor at elevation all day, every day.

(Mountain air has less oxygen, making it difficult to breathe until you acclimate. Endurance athletes will train at altitude to gain a cardiovascular advantage over their opponents. After you work hard at altitude, sea-level cardiovascular work seems easy).

It takes wilful ignorance to discount his hard work and label it “good genetics”.

His genetics give him an advantage of having a physique that “flows well”.

But genetics never lifted weights for him, genetics never kept candy out of his mouth, and genetics didn’t build his muscle – work did.

The stone cold reality is that people with good physiques play sports or they go to the gym or they do some hard work.

There isn’t anyone alive who has a good physique and does no physical activity – it takes work to achieve.

Genetics mean shit if you don’t go to the gym. No one is gifted a good physique and no one is gifted an iron will.

To get what you want you work for it and that’s it.

Achieving the Gorilla Mindset

If you want a good physique, if you want money, if you want fame, if you want peace, if you want anything…..

You work for it.

Even if you were born with shit. Even if you were born in hell. Even if you thought it wasn’t possible.

I have a friend named Mike Cernovich.

Mike and I have a lot in common. We both lived in hell, for example, and escaped to the light.

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Victor Pride (far left) and Mike Cernovich (far right) enjoying cigars in Saigon.

Mike stayed at Pride Castle for half a year.

It was there he finished his book Gorilla Mindset (which could have been titled This is how you change your life, step by step).

Below is an excerpt from Gorilla Mindset by Mike Cernovich.

I grew up as a child on welfare. I had holes in my clothes. My parents were well-meaning and good people, but they had no concept of how to make or save money. They made mistakes and did the best they could, which is all you can expect from anyone.

Not only was I usually the poorest kid in school, I was also the fattest. I was “naturally” chubby and was picked on, ridiculed, and beaten up. I was afraid to walk home from school, as more often than not people would follow me. I’d be called names and beaten up.

My dad told me to start taking martial arts, and he even started taking classes with me. I was not naturally athletic. I was clumsy and out of shape, and couldn’t even do a single push-up. I hated martial arts classes and would have quit had my dad not been there taking classes with me. I went through the motions, but I had no natural talent or belief in myself.

One day a bully beat me up badly. It was humiliating. My sister had to pull my attacker off of me. I felt demoralized and powerless. We had a mattress in our garage. I went to the garage, laid down, and cried myself to sleep. When my dad came home from work, he opened the garage door, looked down at me with part pity and part contempt, and asked me one question that changed my life.

“When are you going to get serious?” Those words, coupled with the expression on his face, were a wake-up call for me. I made the decision right then and there: I would get serious. Very serious.

I would train until my body was exhausted and would hit the heavy bag until my knuckles bled. When I read in a martial arts magazine that Thai fighters do 10 rounds on the heavy bag, I decided to do the same. When I learned that Thai boxers would roll up magazines and hit their shins and legs to toughen themselves up, I did that as well.

I learned that when you consciously put in work, you will make progress. You might have terrible genetics, you might not have potential to be in the Olympics or win a UFC title, but you will improve.

I earned my black belt in Tae Kwon Do, boxed, and began beating up the bullies who had bullied me. I had a hair-trigger, and would even look for reasons to fight. But I was never happy, and my social skills were poor. I was awkward and weird. My mindset was based on vengeance rather than on exploration, connecting with people, or being happy.

At one point I was invited to attend a school “lock-in” at the YMCA with a bunch of other classmates. I was so wrapped up in “fight mode” that I put on Tiger Balm to keep my joints warm, lest someone decided to start a fight with me.

I also didn’t perform well in school, with every teacher having the same line for my parents at PTA meetings: “Michael is so smart. He does not live up to his potential.”

It wasn’t that I enjoyed getting into trouble, but I grew up in a poor neighborhood. Where I came from, getting good grades and doing homework wasn’t the norm. I’d get into fights, steal sandwiches from the local grocery store, and shoot out car windows with a BB gun (which was also stolen). When one of my acts of vandalism made the local newspaper, I clipped out the picture with pride.

To change my life, I had to change my own mindset.

That poor white trash boy grew up and became a rich lawyer with powerful associates and attractive friends.

Was he born rich and successful?

Obviously he wasn’t, you just read about his childhood.

So if poor, white trash from Jerkwater, Illinois can do it, why can’t anyone else?

Changing your life is as easy as changing your mind and deciding to live the life you need to live.

Step by step instructions now exist – so there are no excuses for living poor, or living fat, or living dead behind the eyes.

There’s no excuse for living in hell, when all it takes is the decision to see the light.

If you want to change it, then you decide to change it, and you work every single day in every single way to get what you require.

If you don’t live the way you dream, it’s because you didn’t work for it.

And that’s the world’s easiest fix….

Just start right now.

Until next time.

Your man,

-Victor Pride

PS – Gorilla Mindset is available for sale on amazon. Do yourself a favor and buy it, read it, follow the worksheets, and for heaven’s sake – take it seriously.

Contentment in Slavery

Slavery has existed for a very long time. Since man first built communities. Slaves have always, and will always, work and toil to make the rich richer.

The rich cannot exist without the middle class. The best slaves are the slaves who don’t understand that they are slaves.

The best slaves are the ones who toil for their rich masters, doing all the work and paying all the taxes, and think that they are working for themselves – working to make their own lives better.

There isn’t necessarily anything wrong with one giving up his power and working for someone else. The world needs worker bees.

However, if YOU have ever had the feeling that you’re wasting your life working a job you hate to make someone else rich then maybe it is time you do something about.

If YOU have ever had the feeling that you’re underpaid and that you’re salary isn’t enough then maybe it is time you do something about it.

There aren’t many rules to life, but one steadfast rule is this: YOU CANNOT BECOME WEALTHY BY BEING PAID A SALARY.

What you are when you are paid a salary is easily subjectable. A salary is nothing more than your parents giving you an allowance when you do your chores.

If you do your chores at work this week you get your allowance, it will give you enough money to go have fun on the weekend, then you get to go back to work and do it all over again.

Maybe if you save long enough you can buy that new entertainment system to further take your mind off of anything important. Just be sure and not show up more than 6 minutes late, more than a few times being tardy and you may be fired.

Wouldn’t it be so much nicer being the one with all the power instead of being the one with no power? The answer is yes. To accomplish anything worthwhile in this lifetime you have to do it yourself.

You have to start it yourself, build it yourself, and make money by yourself.  At some point you will need a team around you to handle operations but when you first start your own business it isn’t necessary.

Take life into your own hands.

Ask yourself one question to determine whether or not you have what it takes to live your life on your terms:

Are you content in your slavery? Pick one.

YES: Cool. You should head on over to another site and read some celebrity gossip.

NO: Excellent. Now do something about it. The world is yours for the taking. Get off your ass and take it.

DOKKODO: 21 Rules of the Ronin (All Aspiring Entrepreneurs Need to Know)

A long time ago there was a great samurai who was cast out, doomed to wander the earth in search of the truth. 

This man was a ronin, a former slave without a master. 

In his travels he built a reputation as the greatest swordsman of the time. 

Great swordsmen tend to also be great wordsmen. This swordsman was no exception. 

His name was Musashi and he wrote the Book of Five Rings, which we still study to this day.

His masterpiece, however, was a list of 21 rules he wrote on a scroll before he died in the mountains. 

He called this last work Dokkodo. It means …  The Way of Walking Alone

The Dokkodo is Musashi’s 21 rules of life. He wrote these rules for his greatest student.

Victor Pride, a great student of the game, took these rules to heart. Musashi’s 21 rules formed the basis of New World Ronin, whose inside title is … The Way of Working Alone.

In Musashi’s time, a ronin was cursed to wander the earth without purpose. 

Today, a ronin is blessed to wander the earth in search of truth, justice and getting paid. He can walk his own path and work his own way and make it pay. 

Thanks to the magic of the internet, you can do anything you want today. Anyone can not only make good money today, anyone can make a million dollars seemingly out of nowhere. 

You can commit corporate seppukucreate your own business and live your own reality. To do it, all you need is your code, your way, your core values, your rules. 

These are them…

21 RULES OF THE RONIN

These rules are for the greatest students of Victor Pride’s New World Ronin

(Musashi’s Dokkodo in bold, Pride in standard text.)

1. Accept everything just the way it is.

The world is as it is, not as we wish it to be. 

Understand the world works in this way, not in the way it should, but in the way it is actually. 

You must work in this paradigm or you will find nothing but disappointment.

2. Do not seek pleasure for its own sake.

Gluttony is gross. Keep your body and mind sharp. 

Too much pleasure dulls the senses. 

Your senses must be sharp because you have only yourself to rely on. 

Drill sergeant and soldier all in one.

3Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling.

Unsure actions produce unsure results. 

Always be sure of victory in your mind before you set to achieve it in reality.

4. Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.

You cannot fool people today. The world is too smart thanks to the Internet. 

Never try to be too clever for your audience, instead, be genuine. 

Genuine men and women develop true followings, in-genuine men and women develop followings based only on favors. 

Make them feel good, they’re yours. Do them a phony favor, they’ll forget as soon as the next snake offers new phony favors.

5. Be detached from desire your whole life long.

The journey is the reward. Being too attached to desire is a mental prison. 

Detachment from desire keeps you calm, cool and collected.

6. Do not regret what you have done.

What’s done is done. Regret is a wasted emotion. The past cannot be undone. 

The only thing you can get from lamenting the past is self-doubt. 

It is outlawed for New World Ronin to reflect and ponder.

7. Never be jealous.

Jealousy clouds the brain and stops you from learning. 

You could only be jealous for one reason: you want whatever it is you’re jealous of. 

Jealousy is anger and anger turns off the part of the brain that thinks. 

Don’t be jealous, be curious. 

Curiosity will make you reverse engineer whatever it is you want and then you will understand how to accomplish it. 

But only if you let go of the choice of Jealousy and adopt curiosity.

8. Never have a mind of adherence and attachment to all things

Like Victor Pride once said, “stuff doesn’t matter.”

9. Resentment and complaint are appropriate neither for oneself or others.

Complaints and resentment are nothing but negative energy. 

Negative energy is worse than useless, it is harmful for you. 

Negative energy produces the fight or flight response which is responsible for stress. 

Living well is hard enough before you make it more complicated with complaints. 

Save yourself some hassle and never complain. 

Remember rule #1? Accept everything just the way it is.

Accept the things you cannot change,
Change the things you cannot accept.” –New World Ronin 

10. Do not let yourself be guided by the feeling of lust or love.

“A good girlfriend is a good little soldier.” -New World Ronin 

11. In all things have no preferences.

It is what it is. Work with what you’ve got. 

If you’ve got nothing, work with your brain. 

The mind is where choices and preferences are made. 

The choice to have no preference is exactly that – a choice.

“Be like water.” -Bruce Lee

12. Be indifferent to where you live.

Too much preference in where you live is limiting. 

When it comes time to die and you’re allowed to reflect, you will find that the worst accommodations you had were the best accommodations you ever had.

That’s where you felt the fire and the drive to do great work.

13. Do not pursue the taste of good food.

Over-eating is bad for the brain. You need your brain to work. 

Do not slow the brain down with grease, extra fat, sugar and too many calories. 

Eat enough to live with energy. Do not eat so much that it robs your energy. 

Food is energy, if it doesn’t energize you, you ate too much or too little. Eat just enough.

14. Do not hold on to possessions you no longer need.

Live like a Spartan. Possessions hold you back.

You may want to travel the world but if you have too much stuff, you never will.

I routinely get rid of all of my stuff and it is always a cathartic process. 

In fact, B&D; started when I got rid of everything that didn’t fit into a suitcase.

15. Do not act following customary beliefs.

Everything they do is wrong and everything they tell you to do is wrong. 

Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing. If they’re jealous, never be jealous.

16. Do not collect weapons or practice with weapons beyond what is useful.

Too much stuff is like too much food, it bogs down the mind. It’s a burden on your back. 

When you follow the way of the Ronin, you need not extra weapons. 

Frankly you can run your entire business from a smartphone. 

Have what you need for business and do not worry about more. 

Too many options = no options chosen. 

When you have only a few options you must get creative. 

In fact, creativity only exists in constraints. 

When you have no constraints, you have no limits. Great in theory, but in reality when you have no limits you never make any choices. 

Analysis paralysis, dirty kitchen etc. Keep your arsenal simple.

17. Do not fear death.

The biggest fear people have is dying, which is silly. 

Everyone on earth will experience death. It is not a smart use of time worrying about the inevitable.

“The whole secret of existence is to have no fear. Even death is not to be feared by one who has lived wisely.” -The Buddha 

18. Do not seek to possess either goods or fiefs for your old age.

You cannot take it with you when you die. Greed in old age is pointless. 

The last rule of the New World Ronin is “give back to the gods.” This is the time you use your accumulated wealth for good.

19. Respect Buddha and the gods without counting on their help.

Like the Buddha said, what you think you become

The gods will not give it to you, they will simply make it possible for you. 

Respect that, but follow your own path and rely on the most high – yourself.

20. You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honor.

Your body will die, your legacy has the ability to live forever. 

A dishonorable life precludes a lasting legacy. 

This is the information age, nothing can be hidden anymore. 

Thankfully our weapons are words and not swords, and words are slightly less likely to get you killed.

21. Never stray from the Way.

All falls apart when you stray from the way. 

Stay centered, stay focused, stay ronin. 

This is the way of working alone, do not ever stray from it.

Until next time.

Your man,

Drilling and Killing – How to Get Your Avalanche of Success

Do you know how professional fighters learn how to fight?

It’s a 2 part process:

  1. They show up to the gym every single day to practice
  2. They drill the moves every day until the moves become instinct

In other words, they show up, they do the work and eventually they get really good at fighting.

The training is hard, time consuming, grueling and painful. But eventually fighting becomes easy, it becomes 2nd nature, it becomes a skill that they will always have.

If they train hard enough, put in enough time, stay disciplined and have enough natural talent you know what usually happens?

They get an opportunity to fight for big bucks and they get rich overnight. Then they make more and more money. They have an avalanche of success. The smart ones take the money they make from fighting and invest in their post-fight careers.

If you want to get good at something – good enough to get paid big bucks – then you do the same thing that pro fighters do – you show up and you do the work. It’s really as simple as that.

You don’t take “sick days”, you don’t show up sporadically, you don’t half ass it and you don’t give up.

You do the work, you get great, then you get paid.

But…

I have some good news and I have some bad news:

Bad news: It’s going to take years to get what you want. Your overnight success could take 10 years or more.

Good news: Most people are quitters and will never stick with anything. If you simply stick with it you will end up in the top 1% of all people on earth. The spoils of war only go to those who stick it out.  Quitters are left with scraps and that’s all they deserve.

Too bad for the quitters right? I won’t pretend to care. Not everyone can live a life of choice and I don’t want everyone to be able to live like me. If everyone lived like me no one would serve me coffee or do my laundry.

The quitters can live poor with their limited choices. The winners can live well with their limitless choices.

You’ll never hear winners complaining about “unfairness” because winners make their own luck.

Losers complain all the time about unfairness, inequality, privilege and other nonsense but they aren’t winners, they aren’t go-getters, they didn’t put in the work so fuck them.

A lot of these losers believe they deserve massive success just because they have a “passion” for it or just because someone else has success.

You don’t deserve anything just because you have a passion for it. Passion without action is for daydreaming retards. Passion means nothing. Passion is a buzzword that broke, struggling entrepreneurs use to justify their laziness.

Here’s the deal…

You want it? You go work for it and then you get it.

If you don’t work for it, fuck you, you don’t get it. End of story. Passion or not.

The reality is that you can have almost anything you want if you put in the time and effort. You want something? Show up and drill it ’til you get it right. Then keep doing it. Drill it until you kill it.

Routine and discipline, boys. That’s how you get good at something, good enough to get paid for it. Just like the fighters I told you about.

You know what you become when you have discipline, routine and commitment? You become the 1%. The 1% of people who are achievers and not daydreamers.

You know how I built a body good enough to make money from? I went to the gym and got after it, day in and day out. Nearly 7 years after stepping foot into the gym I started making money from my physique.

You know how I built a website good enough to make money from? I did the work, I spent my time, I didn’t quit. I spent years as an entrepreneur learning and making money. Then I started Bold and Determined, I kept at it, I didn’t make a dime the first year, at the two year mark I made a nice livable income, now after the three year mark I make more than 99% of people on earth.

I get emails from these guys working these nasty jobs under fluorescent lights for shit pay wondering how they can get out of hell. I’ve already explained dozens of times but let’s recap…

Here’s how you get out of hell (9-5 jobs):

  1. Realize that you’re a useful idiot getting butt-fucked by the system.
  2. Say to yourself “I sure am tired of getting butt-fucked by the system. I’d like to try my luck on my own and see what I’m really made of: grit or gutlessness”.
  3. Quit your job like I did (when you have a suitable replacement) and work like a damn dog to get what you want (drill it until you can kill it). A normal job is 8 hours, that gives you another 8 hours per day to drill and prepare to quit your job.
  4. After you’ve put in the work, after you’ve drilled for a few years you should be making a nice income and you can finally relax. You’ll reach a point where money keeps coming in whether you are working hard or sipping lemon tea by the pool.

Personally, I don’t struggle at all, not a bit. I can’t stress this enough – my life as an entrepreneur is easy and I make so much more money than I EVER made as an employee.

In two months I make more money as an entrepreneur than I ever made in an entire year as an employee. In my previous career I made two years worth of income in one single day.

What makes me so special?

I put in the work, I wanted it and I did my time. I drilled over and over. That’s it. Now I can do whatever I want. The other day I was going to write a “day in the life” piece but my day was so comically lazy I never wrote it, but I’ll share the timeline here:

5am – Wake up

5:20am – 6am – Conference call with my new web hosting affiliate

6:10am – 6:50am – Cardio on the recumbent bicycle

7am – 7:10am – Shit, shower, shave

7:30am – 11am – Dealt with Thai immigration

11:45am – 1:30pm – Went to the shopping mall to eat Sushi and play guitars at the music store

2pm – 3pm – Had briefing with my web assistant about the days business affairs

3pm – Had some Kratom tea brewed for me to help me relax after such a hectic day

3:45pm – 3:47pm – Retired to the bedroom to have quality time with little miss Pride

4pm – Realized this was such a lazy day there’s no point in writing about it

I’m able to have lazy days any day of the week because I am reaping the rewards of work I did years ago. Please don’t mistake my lazy day for me doing nothing, I did the work required to get me from point A to point B and I don’t have some stupid job getting in the way of doing what I want or need to do.

What about you?

I can’t quit my job! I have to struggle to provide for my family!

I know a lot of you men have families and mouths to feed and are reluctant to quit a steady paycheck (and some of you even pretend that struggling to pay the bills is righteous and noble).

I got three things to say to that:

  1. When you struggle it’s more fun for them to butt-fuck you. They love to keep you struggling enough so that you don’t have any options.
  2. It’s easier to feed your family when you have an avalanche of money coming in. Much easier than “scraping by” and “barely managing” like the average Joe. A normal job will keep your options scarce, a winners “job” will keep your options abundant.
  3. There is no honor in struggling to feed your family. Your family will appreciate you as a man who took the bull by the horns, not as the gutless man who “struggled” and got butt-fucked by a corporation in cahoots with the tax looting government.

When you have money it’s easy to feed your family. Struggling sucks. I’ve been on both sides. I much prefer being able to provide for myself and little miss Pride without having to struggle, or even having to think about the price of foods and services.  If I were only “scraping by” and making “ends meet” you can bet I’d be working around the clock until the situation was fixed.

Below is a video of champion fighter Georges St. Pierre talking about how he is able to provide for his family because his avalanche of wealth came in after years and years of showing up and drilling and not giving up. Now his family never has to worry about money for the rest of their lives.

“I said I want you to clear all the debt. And I don’t want my parent(s) to pay any more debt for the rest of their life. Never again.” -GSP

Imagine the feeling of clearing all the debt in one afternoon.

I did it before and believe me it was fantastic. An avalanche came in and I wrote a few checks and cleared my debt forever. Poof. Debt is gone and I’m free.

You can do the same if you’re made of grit and not gutlessness.

All it takes is a switch being flipped…

It took me 6 years to go from being broke as a joke to literally not having to worry or think about money.

My money went up and down like an elevator during most of that time but now it’s just an escalator, steadily going up. 6 years is nothing, I’d do it again even if it took me 12 years. Better than the alternative.

But what if you’re too young or too old?

Nonsense.

I know some young guns making loot and I know some old dogs making loot. It’s never too late to start and it’s never too early to start, as long as you start now.

It’s just a choice you make, bud. That’s all it is. Grit or gutlessness. Discipline or aimlessness. Do or die. Sink or swim. What’s your choice?

Until next time.

Your man,

-Victor Pride

PS – I enjoy meeting and networking with like minded people. I’m always looking for opportunities and I’m preparing to expand the operation enormously. You got the ideas, you got the time, you got the grit, you drop me a line and we’ll talk.

Give Up Your Foolish Pride

You’re too proud. Just give it up already. We’re all the same on the inside. You don’t have anything to be proud of.

The only thing that makes you different from other people is you were born with privilege and they weren’t. Your IQ, your work ethic, your self-discipline, your drive and your passion have nothing to do with it.

You were just born privileged and should have nothing to be proud of, like the rest of  all the sad sacks you see every day.

Just because you drive a nice car that you paid for, just because you have an above average IQ, just because you have more than two weeks pay in the bank, just because you dress well, just because you don’t waste your money on dope, just because you don’t waste your money on lottery tickets, just because you don’t blame others for your station in life, just because you don’t expect handouts, just because you would never take government welfare, just because you don’t spend time with lesser human beings, just because everything you have you (and your family) worked for, just because you have ideals, just because you aren’t covered in tattoos and piercings,  just because you make plans for the future and follow through with them, just because you have high standards for people, just because you pay your taxes, just because you aren’t a fat slob, just because you don’t have bastard children, just because you don’t have unkempt hair and facial hair, just because you aren’t a minority who deserves success more than you, just because you hold a steady job or self-employed position, just because you accomplish whatever you put your mind to, just because you don’t tolerate bullshit, just because you’re a winner DOES NOT MAKE YOU BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE!

So get over yourself already and come and spend time with us normal people. Those of us that aren’t so high and mighty and don’t want to work for what we have.

Just give it up already.

Give up that foolish pride and come and live like us animals.

It is better to live without pride, like us degenerate filth who respect everybody equally. Don’t you see how wrong your pride is?

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How a Commitment to Excellence Made Me (and my inner circle) Financially Free

Howard Stern once asked Jerry Seinfeld if he was ever “off”.

Stern asked if he was ever “just in the moment, not looking for the joke, but having a good time or arguing with your wife or something”.

The extremely successful Jerry Seinfeld replied “No. I’m never just ‘in the moment’, I’m always on. I’m always looking for the joke. Always”.

Me too.

Bold and Determined is my life and I’m never “off”.

Everything in my life is for Bold and Determined and B&D hasn’t been out of my thoughts for a single instance in 3.5 years.

Never.

I know what you’re thinking….

But Vic, you only write once a week, once every two weeks, once a month etc..?

4 reasons for that….

1) Writing articles is only one piece of the puzzle.

The equation isn’t write more articles = make more money.

The equation is publish the best articles + give it time = more money.

Publishing articles constantly would be a waste of my time and I value my time more than anything.

2) The amount of art I create and don’t publish could make another man rich.

I am always working on something but I put out the best or I put out nothing. I don’t give a damn if it’s two months in between posts.

3) The way I run my business is a little different.

I have one main website, Bold and Determined, and I have satellite sites that revolve around my main site.

30 Days of DisciplineBody of a SpartanBADNET are the main satellite sites and then you’ve got the social media hubs like YouTubethe iTunes podcastTwitterFacebook and Instagram.

I call the whole thing BADWORLD.

I do business this way because I don’t like combining different things into one mish-mash.

My satellite sites run themselves and don’t require any daily attention from me. They take a tremendous amount of work to get live and profitable, but after that burst of work I’m finished. There’s nothing I need to do except collect $$$.

I’m always working on satellite sites – but that doesn’t mean they always get published. They rarely get published. See point #1.

4) I don’t talk about my behind the scenes plans.

I don’t spill the beans to anyone unless they’re in the inner circle. The inner circle is exclusive and elitist. There are only 4 people in the BADWORLD inner circle (including me), the rest of you will just have to wait.

I followed those 4 guidelines for years, guess what happened….

I’ve become completely financially free. I had money before B&D but I actually had to go out in the real world and do some work. Now I don’t even have to leave my war room if I don’t want to.

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The Official BADWORLD War Room

Not only am I financially free, but my inner circle doesn’t have to worry about money either.

There’s a big difference between working and having a job. Having a job is for suckers, working on something that benefits you long term is what winners do.

Anyone who works for me doesn’t have to work a real job. There is no time clock, there is no micro-management, there is no incompetent boss, there is no being stuck in bumper-to-bumper traffic yelling at the idiots who can’t drive, there is no affirmative action and there is no equal opportunity.

You pull your weight, you get taken care of. Period.

Example: Miss Lion, part of the inner circle, doesn’t have a job because:

  1. She doesn’t need to have a job, she’s financially free thanks to me
  2. I want her here working for me (cooking, cleaning, ___ing) and
  3. Jobs are no way to live life – I wouldn’t make her do something I hate so very much

Like I said in the title, I made a commitment to excellence. That commitment turned into financial freedom for me and my chosen ones.

But another thing happened that I never expected or planned…

Having a commitment of excellence, dedication and discipline has turned me into an authority figure and a father figure.

I never wanted to be anyone’s daddy (well, not for men) but here I am in that position – in real life and on the internet.

My girlfriends have always called me daddy but to be 28 years old (when I started B&D, not now) and have guys emailing me telling me I was like the father they never had was a little new to me.

And it still happens every week.

So instead of running from it I embrace it. I want to see young men of character fulfill their destinies and I’ll be here to facilitate that. That’s a guarantee.

I still won’t tolerate morons, but young men of vision, courage and spirit will get great benefit from future BADWORLD output.

As it happens I’ve taken on my first “intern”. He’s got a great pool-view condo just two floors down from me and he gets to eat nutritious and delicious food all for the price of working for me 24/7.

How to intern/apprentice the right way

Normal interns are stupid people. They aren’t working for knowledge or to learn a skill, they are working to add some words to their resume so they can get a job in the future.

To add those little words to their resume they work for free for their masters and they get zero in return. They have to beg for money from their parents, they have to live on credit cards, they live like dogs while they “survive” their internship.

My guy isn’t surviving, he’s thriving.

The best way to “intern” is to not intern for a company but to apprentice for a successful individual.

To get any benefit from an internship you’ll want to be more like a personal assistant to a big dog than to be a coffee boy at a big corporation.

To a big corporation you’re just free labor. They couldn’t care less if you succeed or fail in life, they have no skin in the game. They aren’t responsible for you.

When people are fully responsible for you they care about you and they care if you succeed because you can directly affect their bottom line.

My “intern” isn’t really an intern. He is my apprentice. He gets room, board and food but that’s inconsequential compared to the real value.

The real value of “interning” with a successful man is knowledge. You get to learn mastery from a master. When my guy leaves here he’s going to be a master entrepreneur long before he reaches the age of 30.

And he gets to do all of that without worrying about making rent, buying food or going into debt.

How to find an apprentice/intern

What if you’re already a big dog and you’d like to find an apprentice/protege to come and work for you?

If you’re making big boy money and need a sidekick how do you pick someone who will work for you for free in return for your specialized knowledge, skill-set and dedicated attention to them?

Easy answer.

You look for a young man with DRIVE. You look for a go-getter in training.

You don’t pick someone who is completely talentless and lost.

You pick a young man who already has the right mindset and can be grown from an Alaskan Husky into a full-grown Wolf.

Pick a guy with the right mindset and you’re work is already done.

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The young man who wrote that has almost no material possessions and no money. That means exactly shit because he has one very important thing…

The right mindset.

I met this young gun two months ago.

We had a conversation and I told him “I’ve gotten everything I’ve ever wanted“.

And then I told him how I did it…

I left out the pretend modesty that I give to idiots and I said to him “I’m the best in the world and I get whatever I want because I put my mind to it and I don’t give up“.

He nodded his head, he kept his mouth shut and I knew right away he “got it”.

Two months later he got what he wanted because he made a commitment to excellence.

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What did he want?

He wanted to come and work with the best and now he does.

In one year he’s going to be a changed man. His pockets are going to be filled with money, his belly is going to be filled with steak and his t-shirts are going to be filled with biceps.

All he had to do was make a choice.

“Change your mindset – change your life”

I’ll tell you a thousand times until it sinks in.

Mindset is key.

If you want to change your life you first have to change your mindset.

It’s not about who you know, it’s not about how good looking you are, it’s not about how much money you have in the bank – it’s mindset.

All those things will come to you (in time) if you have a killers mindset.

Developing the right mindset

Answer these questions:

  1. What do you want? (The answer is yours alone)
  2. How will you get it? (I’ve spelled out the answer – Mindset)
  3. Will you quit for any reason? (If the answer is anything other than ‘no’ you will not fulfill your destiny and you do not have the right mindset)

Some say it’s kill or be killed.

I say winners are too busy killin’ to think about the “or” part.

Until next time.

Your man,

-Victor Pride

PS – I know I said I never give away information unless you’re in the inner circle so keep this a secret…

There just might be a new opportunity in the new year for young guns who have spirit and drive.

There just may be an opportunity. There just may be the chance of a lifetime to come and…

How Can You Change Your Life Today? (A 30 Days of Discipline Review)

Gentlemen, I got this message via email a few weeks back and it put a big smile on my face.

“Hey Vic, today was Day 30 of your life-changing program. I have to say it’s the most powerful and enlightening experience I’ve ever had. I’m a new man now. A REAL MAN.

Waking up at 5 am is easy for me now. I love to walk in the morning and clear my mind. I love to go to the gym at 6:30 am and give everything I have. I’m a Proud and Bold Lion now.

I take cold showers everyday. Not even a second of hot water. My muscles contract and I feel alive. There is this animal feeling inside, this true leadership that I’ve never felt before.

Gave up porn and masturbation. Feel like a million bucks, smiling to ladies, talking to strangers, getting compliments for my clothing style.

Adopted the To-Do list for the rest of my life. I was the biggest procrastinator ever a month ago. Now I get shit done everyday man. Kicking ass real hard.

Pushups helped me to finally show a little of chest definition. It was my lacking body part and I know someday it will be my strongest part. Thank you for your site, for your program, thank you for being direct, no B.S., and thank you for helping me discovering the hidden Alpha Man inside.

Cheers my friend.”

If you’d like to have a try at changing your life today you can pick up a copy of 30 Days of Discipline here.

-Victor Pride