Warning: This post is rude, crude and lewd. Reader discretion is advised.
Friends, if you’re having trouble with women I have the answer for you.
If you’re reading online about how to pick up and keep women I have the answer for you.
If you’ve been getting the run around from Sally-Jane down the street I have the answer for you.
If you haven’t been laid in a year I have the answer for you.
If you’re girlfriend is withholding sex I have the answer for you.
If you have a hard time keeping women around I have the answer for you.
It’s not going to be the answer you think it is and it isn’t pretty.
How to pick up and attract women is on sale by charlatans all over the internet but I’m going to give it to you for free.
It’s got nothing to do with being a better man, it’s got nothing to do with getting in the gym and building muscles, and it’s got nothing to do with pick-up artist or ‘game’ baloney.
There is 1 rule above all others that must be followed if you wish to have undying affection, attention and love from women.
Now, before I give you the holy grail I want you to do something for me. I want you to be completely honest with yourself about what you want in a woman. It will make this process a whole lot easier.
A lot of guys have been bamboozled by TV and magazines and schooling and a whole bunch of other nonsense. Some guys actually believe they want a “strong, independent” sassy woman. Rather, they want you to believe that’s what they want. They’re scared that if they admit the truth then women will no longer like them.
The truth is that men love women who are demure, feminine, and polite. Women have it twisted, they think that being a nasty bitch is the same thing as being honest and true.
The unfortunate thing is that a lot of guys let women get away with this nasty behavior, in hopes of getting some sex.
These guys let women pretend to be strong and independent. Friend, those are male traits, those aren’t female traits and they never will be.
If you wanted “just one of the guys” you’d be a homosexual, not a straight man. You want a girl. You want a girl who isn’t ashamed of being a girl. Men love femininity. We don’t like women who act like men. And the guys still pretending got to give this BS a rest.
Women want to make men happy. Once you realize that, you can forget about the nonsense of equality. The “fight for equality” is nothing more than a war between the sexes.
Now that you are honest with yourself it makes what I’m about to tell you that much easier to put into action. Once you stop believing in that baloney it’s going to turn you into a testosterone machine irresistible to women and girls.
Let me be clear about something: The rule I’m about to give you works for all women, from the sassy, independent sex and the city wannabe’s to the good ol’ country girls raised in the church to the girls from a 3rd world country to girls from outer space and beyond.
This is the only thing you ever have to do to a) Get women and b) Keep women.
If you read online about how to pick-up women you’re always going to read about alpha males and beta males. An Alpha male is the top dog and beta males collect the scraps. Bunch of nincompoops will write pages and pages about “being Alpha” but none of them will ever boil it down to what it really means.
Well, today I am going to tell you exactly what makes an Alpha Male. It ain’t: looks, money, social skills, leadership abilities, social status, height or anything else. These things matter but they aren’t #1.
This isn’t a nice piece of advice but it is the 100% unadulterated truth.
If you follow all other ways to become attractive to women but ignore this advice you will fail.
Here is the only piece of advice you will ever need to attract and keep women:
BE SELFISH.
That’s it. It takes a selfish man to have a woman or women completely devoted to his happiness.
Alpha simply means ‘to be selfish’. And women love selfish men.
An Alpha is completely unafraid of being selfish.
Alpha literally means ‘first’. It’s a selfish ‘me-first’ attitude.
What does an alpha Lion do? He sits around while the women go out and hunt for him. When they bring the food back what does the alpha Lion do? He eats first. Pretty selfish, huh?
The Lion doesn’t tolerate others eating before him. The best food is his. The alpha Lion doesn’t let other, lesser males mate with his pride. The Lion doesn’t act in a fair and noble manner. The Alpha Lion doesn’t raise other Lion’s children. He’s selfish. And because he is selfish, the Lionesses do everything to make him happy.
Now, I know a lot of guys will say “man, that’s a real douchebag thing to say!” to which I only have one reply: I hope you enjoy jacking off.
Political incorrectness does not make something false.
Women line up for the selfish men. Women run as fast as they can from the guys who aren’t selfish.
It takes a delusional mind to think that women want a nice guy who brings them flowers and compliments their beauty and does everything to make them happy.
The man is the leader. That’s all there is to it. When the man is most concerned with her happiness, guess what she is most concerned about. That’s right, she is most concerned with her happiness.
When you are most concerned with your happiness guess what she is most concerned about. Right again, she is concerned about your happiness.
She takes her cues from you – never forget that.
A woman with an unselfish man, one who will do everything for her, is like a dog with a weak owner. The dog is unhappy because it has no boundaries or rules. The owner is unhappy because the dog acts like an asshole. When the dog has a firm owner and knows its boundaries it is a whole lot happier, and the owner is happy because he’s got himself a loving, obedient dog.
When a woman has herself a man who sets boundaries on her she is a whole lot happier.
Does this sound familiar?
“What the heck does she see in him? He’s such a prick! She’s way too good for him! If she was with me I’d treat her like a princess!”
That’s exactly why she will never ever be with guys who say this nonsense. She doesn’t want to date a giant faggot. She wants to date a selfish alpha. She want to be with him and make him happy.
She’s disgusted by the thought of someone wanting to treat her like a princess and groveling for her affection. A selfish alpha simply demands her affection. If she doesn’t give it there are a whole lot more women who will.
If your brain works properly then you have noticed that women who are completely, head over heels in love are never in love with a “super nice guy”. They’re in love with guys who are selfish.
If you treat women like women they’ll sit around in skimpy outfits feeding you grapes. If you treat women like men you’ll get nothing but an earful about how unfairly she is treated and how you need to respect her and then she’s gonna go out and get fucked by a selfish alpha who treats her like a woman. Do you get it yet?
So what do you have to do to get women?
You got to get rid of the nice guy act. Just do what you want to do, when you want to do it and don’t put up with bullshit.
Only be concerned with what you want.
Be completely, unapologetically selfish.
It’s your way or the highway.
Learn your new favorite word: “no”.
If she does something you don’t like then you be selfish and tell her.
Never, ever pretend that what she did is ok. Never pretend that she is an Angel who can do no wrong. If she’s acting like a bitch tell her to stop acting like a bitch. If she cooked food that doesn’t taste good then tell her it isn’t good. If she looks fat in that dress tell her she looks fat. Lying to protect her feelings only makes her delusional about what is and isn’t acceptable.
Never pretend that she is a man or “just one of the guys”. She’s a woman. When you treat her like a woman she’s gonna act like a woman.
Let me tell you something that most people are afraid to say: Women are chameleons. They will change themselves for a man. That’s a woman’s nature. It doesn’t make her a bad person.
She wants to change into the woman you want her to be. Let her. Help her. You aren’t doing her any favors by encouraging bad behavior, but you are doing her a big favor when you act like a man who knows exactly what he wants – and gets it.
What would a selfish man do?
Would he take turns doing the dishes? No.
Would he accompany her to her co-workers wedding? No.
Would he grovel and beg for forgiveness for anything? No.
Would he massage her shoulders for an hour? No.
Would he feel bad about being such an asshole? No.
Would he put up with bitchy behavior? No.
Would he take her silly tests seriously? No.
Would he be ok with her seeing other guys? No.
Would he forgive her for betraying him? No.
Would he spend 3 months salary on a ring? No.
Would he put up with flaky behavior? No.
Would he take her out to a fancy dinner on the first date? No.
Would he say “please can you bring me a water sweetie“? No. He says “bring me a water“.
Is he scared that if he isn’t nice enough she will leave him for someone better? No.
Is he afraid to show her the door if she doesn’t act the way he wants? No.
Would he use her as a tool for his own happiness? Yes.
Would she love him with all of her heart and soul? You better believe it.
Would she stay with him if he turned into a super nice guy who put her happiness first? Sure. For a while. But she’d be getting sexed on the side by a selfish lover.
Guys – women were put on this earth to make selfish men happy. Not the other way around. You can be a liar and pretend it isn’t so, and drive her away in the process, or you can act like a man, a winner, and let her make you happy. She can become a part of your world or you can become part of her world. The choice is yours.
A Gentleman will arrive at a ladies dwelling early Friday evening and present her with a selection of beautiful, expensive and exotic flowers. He will compliment her beauty as he escorts her to his moderately priced but environmentally friendly automobile and opens the door for her.
They will arrive at the expensive French restaurant where he will pull out the chair for his exquisite date. He will tenderly ask her what she likes to eat, when the waiter arrives he will order (in French) exactly what she likes and nothing she doesn’t. The date will go very well, they have so many things in common.
He thinks she could be the one he has been waiting for his whole life. He starts to imagine their life together. It’s just going so well and she’s so perfect he doesn’t want to rush things. Which is good because she said she doesn’t want to rush things either.
He drops her off early (she has to wake up early) and he kisses her on the cheek and tells her what a great time he had. He eagerly makes plans for their next date and she accepts. He drives home. He hops online and updates his social internet account with a new status about the evening and what a great time he had. He then goes to bed, still thinking about the future with this girl, masturbates and falls asleep with a smile.
When the girl is dropped off, she goes inside to her apartment and logs on to social internet account. She then opens her apple cellular telephone and sends a message to an alpha wolf she has been casually seeing for the past few weeks, asking what he is doing. He does not respond.
After one hour she decides to go to bed. She is awoken two hours later when she receives a new message from the alpha wolf which simply says “come over dont wear anything but a coat”. She responds that she is sleeping and can she see him tomorrow. He does not respond. 10 minutes later she text messages him and says she is on her way. She arrives at his apartment, he pulls off her coat, tells her to get on her knees and she eagerly complies, saying I wilst do that for thee. The next morning at work she is very tired but has no regrets.
The next Wednesday cannot come soon enough for the gentlemen, for that is when he will go on date #2 with his potential new girlfriend. He arrives 4 minutes early to their arranged time, she is still getting ready but that is ok, he is an understanding person. When she is finally ready 27 minutes later he presents her with a gift, just a small necklace that made him think of her. Again, he escorts her to his automobile and drives her to the ice-skating rink inside the mall.
They have a fantastic time ice-skating and then they go to the food court for pizza, she tries to pay for half but he declines for a gentleman always pays for a lady. And he knows how to treat a lady. They eat for a while. She casually mentions how early she has to be at work the next day. Concerned about the time, he asks her if she needs to go home. She says yes. Without hesitation he drives her home. When they arrive at her apartment he works up the courage to ask if he can come in for some hot chocolate. She replies that she really wants to take it slow this time, and besides, she has work the next day. He understands and kisses her on the cheek.
That Friday, the gentlemen calls her and asks if she would like to attend a movie that evening. She replies that she has already made plans with her best girlfriends. He asks her what she is doing tomorrow, she says she has plans but that maybe she can break them. She will let him know tomorrow. He says ok and tells her to have a great night. She says you too.
She goes to the local discotheque with her best girlfriends and they dance. Many guys try to dance with her and she brushes them off, other guys she dances with. One guy in particular she thought was attractive at first but turned out to be really rude. She asked him to buy her a drink, he said sure, went to the bar and returned with two drinks: a whiskey and coke for himself and a glass of tap-water for her. He even laughed at her. She bids him adieu.
During the evening the gentleman text messages her and asks if she is having a good time. She ignores the messages. Instead, she has been unable to stop watching her new gentleman caller, the one who returned with a water for her. He has been talking and smiling with a lot of other girls and guys. He hasn’t paid very much attention to her except for the occasional glances in which she breaks eye-contact before he does.
Nearer the end of the evening, when the discotheque is about to close, he casually strolls up to her and says lets go. Surprised, she says where. He says my home. She acts flabbergasted and waits for him to explain. He says nothing. After 15 seconds she says ok, I’d like to. They arrive at his apartment home and have sex without a condom.
Her gentlemen caller cannot sleep for he is worried about her as she has not returned any of his three text messages. He calls her the next morning to make sure she is ok, she mentioned how her phone died the night before and that she didn’t receive any of his messages. He asks her to accompany him for the evening and she says she can’t but if something changes she will let him know. He says ok, have fun.
That evening the lady returns to the discotheque scene with her best girlfriends, where she runs into the alpha wolf from the previous Friday evening. He is with another young lady and ignores her. She chatters with her best girlfriends about what ungentlemanly like behavior the alpha wolf displays.
When she returns home for the evening she logs into her social internet account and leaves a comment lamenting the fact that there are no good men left and what a shame it is. The gentleman, fearing she is speaking of him, instantly responds and says that he is there for her if she would like to talk. She says thank you, you are so sweet and then she goes to sleep. The gentlemen understands that this is merely a test for her love and affection and devises a very romantic plan to win her heart forever.
The next afternoon the gentleman, understanding how emotionally vulnerable she is, asks if she’d like to go shopping to make her feel better. She says yes, that is so sweet. They go to the mall and he patiently waits while she tries on her stylish new clothes and when it is time to pay he hands the cashier his visa credit card. Surely the lady will see that he can provide for her and will do anything to win her heart.
He drives her back to her apartment home and this time she invites him in. They sit on the sofa and she again tries on some of her new clothes. He comments how pretty she looks, to which she responds with a smile. She sits down on the sofa and she kisses him. He kisses back, eagerly. After a minute she pushes him away and says she doesn’t want to go to fast or get too involved, don’t you see her heart has been broken before. He says yes, I understand. I would never want to rush you. Whenever you are ready let me know and I will be here for you.
The gentleman leaves her apartment, understanding she she needs some space and some time to sort out her feelings. The lady, using the camera on her apple cellular telephone, takes a picture of herself in the bathroom mirror with her breasts exposed and messages the picture to the alpha wolf who ignored her the previous evening. She captions the photograph with the words this is what you could have had.
The alpha wolf does not respond. The lady again logs into her social internet account and reports to her friend network that guys are such pigs and only want one thing and there are no good guys left and that at least she is following her heart.
The period after breaking up with a girlfriend can be a lonesome time full of doubt, fear, regret and pain.
Now you will learn how to get over a breakup the easiest, most painless way possible.
This article will not review how to get over a divorce, but how to get over a breakup with a girlfriend with whom you do not share children.
For purposes of this post we will assume the girl in the relationship broke up with the guy.
We can assume this for two reasons:
Most breakups are initiated by the female and
A male would not be reading about how to get over a breakup if he were not the heartbroken party.
10 steps to getting over a breakup:
This is how you get over a girl.
1) Understand that you are still in love with her simply because you can’t have her.
If she all of a sudden became extremely needy she would cease to be so attractive. Men are in love with women they cannot have and women are in love with men they cannot have. If they could have them, that person would cease to be as attractive.
2) There are plenty of fish in the sea.
There are over 3 billion women in the world and the median age for women world-wide is 29 years old. That means there are millions of dateable women in the world. There are literally millions of women as good, or better, than her. There are prettier women, there are sexier women, there are smarter women, there are younger women – anything you can think of there are millions more.
To be obsessed with one in a sea of millions is lunacy. All her “great” qualities were something you made up in your mind. The truth is that women will change to please you in any way you desire. Women are chameleons in love and your hobbies and interests will become her hobbies and interests. A better woman can always be found.
3) She is not your soulmate, your true love, the one or anything else.
She’s just a girl you dated for a while. Soulmates and true love is an invention of the movies and sold to the gullible masses. If she was your soulmate or your true love you would still be with her and everything would be roses.
If such a thing as soulmates existed then you would have never broken up. If true-love existed then she would still be with you. It isn’t true love you have, it’s true infatuation because she played you really well. If the girl actually was perfect for you then you would not have broken up.
4) Realize that when another girl comes along you will forget all about the old one.
The way you get over your dog’s death is you mourn for a while and then you go to the puppy pound and pick up a new dog. Similarly, the way you truly get over a woman is to get another one.
5) Do not watch sappy movies or listen to sad music.
The media you imbibe affects your mood, positively or negatively. Rather than consume media that makes you sad, you should consume media that uplifts you and motivates you for the future. Don’t feed that heartbreak fire with heartbreak songs, movies and books.
6) Realize that you dodged a bullet by breaking up.
Since it could not last, could never last, its best that it’s over with now instead of in the future when much more could be at stake i.e. children, alimony, divorce, child support etc. A little heartache is a whole lot better than being bled dry from an unhappy ex-wife.
7) Realize that you will just be sad and lonesome for a little while and accept it.
You wouldn’t be human if you had no emotions. So maybe you’ll spend a week listening to sad music and drinking too much whiskey. Just don’t let it become habit. Get it out, get it over with and move on.
8) You can learn from your mistakes and be a better companion for your future women.
That doesn’t mean you should pay more attention or buy more gifts, you shouldn’t. You should act in a similar aloof manner in which “the one” acted which caused you so much heartache and pain. If you want your woman to be head over heels in love with you, you simply cannot be too available to her.
That doesn’t mean you must be rude or mean, but it does mean you cannot be too nice or too eager to please. Never spill your guts and always let her wonder about you. Conventional wisdom says otherwise but conventional wisdom leads to divorce from “unhappy” wives who didn’t have the mystery they craved.
Your woman must look up to you in some way to maintain her feelings of love for you. When you maintain that aloofness she is drawn to your power, the power she craves for you to have but will never admit.
9) Never, ever take advice from women on how to get women.
They will lie unknowingly and tell you to be nice and be yourself and buy gifts, knowing full well that they despise the losers who do such things. Similarly, do not take advice from internet “pick up artists” hellbent on sexual degeneracy. The best person to take advice from is a guy who continually has pretty girlfriends who dote on him.
10) Realize that a lot of modern women will never be happy with any man as long as they live.
The reality is that modern woman has been spoon-fed completely unrealistic romance movies her entire life and she believes in them as much as she believes in anything. She believes she deserves everything she sees on TV. She will always think that her perfect man, her soulmate, her white knight in shining armor is out there somewhere.
Absolutely nothing a man can do will please such women forever. These women will die alone and will never, ever understand where they went wrong until it’s too late. These are the women whom you cannot please no matter what. If you’re dating such a woman you should let her go immediately and find a better companion. Don’t fall for the “saving her” baloney. She isn’t a damsel in distress and she is beyond redemption. Such cases will only end with you with your head in your hands wondering “why?”.
Getting over a breakup is easy when you think about it in a logical way and don’t let blind emotion run you over. The old adages are very true: there are plenty of fish in the sea, you are better off etc. There is light at the end of your tunnel, whereas if you stayed on board with this woman there would only be darkness waiting for you. The right choice has been made for you, whether you want to believe it or not. Dust yourself off and find yourself a better option. There are millions to choose from.
Bonus #11) You can use the breakup as fuel for a great workout.
There is no time a man will hit the weights harder than after a breakup. Especially when she starts dating again. Instead of letting that baloney eat you up let if fuel your fire.
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If you want women to become obsessed with you read this article, but heed this warning: when a woman is obsessed with you, you will lose your desire for her. For you to be truly attracted and want her she must make you chase her a little. She cannot be too available at first because the chase is an important part of “falling in love”.
1) Be Tall – Women want to look up to a man, literally and figuratively.
2) Be Rich – A rich man is equivalent to a beautiful woman. Have you ever seen a fat girl riding shotgun in a Lamborghini?
3) Be Handsome – You will find some internet sites that bewilderingly proclaim “Looks don’t matter”. We’ll call those guys virgins. Looks matter – make yourself look the best you can. A lean face is a handsome face. Make sure your face is lean.
4) Be Jacked – I have seen the power of being jacked with my own two eyes. When I’m in shape and women touch my arms and my abs the first thing they say, with huge eyes, is “Oh my God!”.
5) Be Highly Confident – You’ve seen the guy in the bar with the sideways baseball cap and the blonde on his arm just eating it up. I got some sour news for some guys: Women love the guys you call douchebags. Because they are confident enough to be a douchebag without caring what anyone else thinks.
6) Do Not Supplicate to Her – Tease her like a little sister. If you tease your little sister and don’t take her seriously she is going to look at you with you giant eyes and a huge smile. But even your little sister will shit all over you if you act in a spineless and dickless manner around her.
7) Be Sarcastically Funny but Not Self-Deprecating – Women absolutely love to be teased, but they do not love when you make fun of yourself. She wants to look up to you so don’t tear yourself down, even in a joking manner.
8) Do Not Be Needy – Needy people are annoying to everyone.
9) Don’t be a Nice Guy – You don’t have to be mean or rude to women, you just don’t ever want to be thought of as a “nice guy” or a “great guy”. That conversation always starts and ends the same: “I think you’re a great guy…. and someday you’re going to meet a woman who will make you happy“.
10) Be Pre-occupied with Your Own World – Make her a part of your world. Whatever you are excited about she will genuinely become excited about as well. Do not become a part of her world – do not stay at home and watch chick flicks and TV shows about gay dancers or whatever that shit is that’s popular right now. Do your own thing and make sure it is a priority for you. If you have nothing going on then start a website and work on that.
11) Don’t be Too Available – I am not saying play some game where you don’t answer every 4th call. I am saying genuinely be too busy to take her calls or to see her sometimes. Remember, you don’t need to rush to call her back 13 seconds after she called you. It can wait as long as you need.
12) Have Excellent Style – Give her an excuse to come and talk to you. “Wow, I love your scarf / shirt / jacket whatever.”
13) Make Decisions – When she says “what do you want for dinner?” you say “Fried pork ribs“. Don’t play the “I dunno, what do you want?” game.
14) Be Aggressive in Bed – Women do not like timidity, especially in the bedroom. Be a Gentleman in public, be a caveman in private. This is also true for women: Be a lady in public and a whore in private. Here is an extra tip: Women absolutely love to be objectified. But only by winners.
15) Do Not Fall for internet Pick-Up Artist (PUA) scams – Those programs are written by societies losers for other losers. And they don’t work.
16) Do not take advice from women about how to win a woman’s heart – They will lie to your face and tell you to be nice, buy her things, bring her roses and all the other baloney they know doesn’t work. They will also lie to other women and say things like “no, you aren’t fat! You should eat more! Your haircut doesn’t make you look like a boy, it’s super cute!“.
17) Give up Masturbation and Internet Porn or Cut Down Tremendously – This will do wonders for your confidence, your energy levels, your ambition and your charisma. Read all about it here.
18) Don’t Be Scared to Say Hi – Picking up women is simply a numbers game. If you see a pretty girl on the street, and she gives you some eye contact, go ahead and say “hi”. “Hello” is a bit formal, “hi” is much better. To get over that fear of talking to women make a deal with yourself to say hi to 5 girls one day, 6 girls the next day, 7 girls the next and so on until it’s a matter of habit. Next thing you know you’re Casanova.
Pick 5-7 of the above traits and you will do ok with women.
The real deal truth is that you need to concentrate on your career (money), you need to concentrate on your physique and health, you need to take care of yourself, you need to be the master of your own domain, you need to bring her into your world and not go into her world (like watching chick flicks every Friday night), and you need to hold yourself to a masculine standard.
If you do not have a pussy you do not need to be in touch with your “feminine side”. If you worship the ground she walks on, she will not respect you. If you don’t worship the ground she walks on, she will worship the ground you walk on. And everybody’s happy.
Thriftiness is the ability to live comfortably while spending considerably less than the majority.
Where the normal person rushes out to the store to purchase a full-priced whatever, a thrifty person uses a little common sense, patience, and discipline to purchase the same item at a steep discount.
Like most people, when I want something I want it 5 minutes ago – I don’t want to wait at all but unlike most people I DEFINITELY don’t want to pay full price.
I want it at a discount and if I can’t get a discount I’ll just wait until I can.
There isn’t much worse than a man who is a spendthrift, wasting all his money on nonsense, acting like a child with money.
Here are some extremely simple ways to buy items at a discount:
Scour the internet: This is a big duh! There are millions of websites that offer products for sale. Doing a simple google search can often get you a better price than driving to the store and purchasing at full price. With an eye for thrift and a little patience you can find many things at a huge discount.
Example: I found a website with a bunch of stylish tank-tops on sale for between $1-$3. I did a further search and found a promotional code for free shipping. That means I bought 6 badass tank-tops for less than $10 and free shipping all the way from the UK, all because I spent a few minutes looking for deals.
Buy the older model: Anytime a new model of electronics comes out, the older version will always be on sale. Buying a brand new piece of electronics when it is first released is a pretty good way to waste money.
Example: I bought my blackberry at a steep discount because it was an older model and a new model was just being released. The old version does all the same bullshit as the new version at a fraction of the price. Buying that brand new, hip, sleek phone will make you happy for about 5 minutes until the new version comes out. Then you will rush out and buy that one. It’s never ending. Opt out of the bullshit and buy simply for function and performance. I’ve had my phone for years and I’m not about to go and buy a new one and sign a contract.
Buy Used: This is the best advice I can give. I have bought so many used items at a steep discount it’s un-imaginable for me to go to a big store and pay full price. With sites likes Craigslist and Ebay it’s beyond easy to buy the same product at a huge discount. With Craigslist you can even view the item before you buy.
Example: I’m typing this on a used laptop that works just like a new one. I found a nice video camera that was brand new (never opened), the gentleman who had it didn’t need it and just wanted to sell it for a few bucks. My other camera was purchased at a steep discount and it was only a few weeks old. My office desk was purchase used for $40. I outfitted my garage gym full of used barbells and weights for less than a few hundred bucks. Hell, my two favorite suit coats I bought at a goodwill thrift center in Wichita, KS over ten years ago for a couple bucks apiece. I purchase(d) all my vehicles used from Craigslist. I even bought my dog used on Craigslist. When you’re willing to put in a little time anything can be found and the price can always be negotiated to bargain basement prices.
Stock Up when you find a nice discount: With a little searching you can find cleaning products and other grooming products at a steep discount, you can buy a bunch of them and use them later. It’s a pain in the ass buying that stuff anyway so you kill two birds with one stone. Even meat can be purchased in bulk, frozen and used later.
Example: I stumbled on a huge discount on roasts. Huge roasts were on sale for a couple bucks apiece so I bought about ten of them and froze them. I ended up feeding them to the dog (overcooked beef, like pot-roasts, is disgusting) but that was dog food for weeks and weeks.
Buy Generic: When you buy brand you aren’t paying for quality, you are paying for the feeling it gives you. Does it really make a difference which soap you use to wash your clothes? No. Buy the cheaper stuff and save your greenbacks. This can go for anything. After my iPod (which was given to me years before) was stolen I bought a cheap Chinese knockoff for less than $10. It plays music just like the iPod does.
Let People Give you Gifts: Take advantage of the good nature of friends and family and wait for Christmas or your birthday. I needed a new belt for months but I’ll be damned if I’m going to the mall and searching for a belt. My girlfriend brought one over on my birthday, exactly as described by me as what I needed. Problem solved.
Fix stuff if it breaks: Fix something instead of throwing money at a new one. Recently I had a backpack break and an mp3 player stop working. I gave the backpack to my girlfriend to sew up, now it’s perfect. I paid a couple kuai (maybe $1.50) to get the mp3 player fixed rather than buy a new one.
D.I.Y.O.D.S. – Do It Your Own Damn Self: If you’re handy you can do it yourself. If you know someone handy you can have them do it. Fix your car yourself. Paint your own house. Cut your own hair. Raise your own chickens. Build your own furniture. Most important of all, cook your own food!
Example: The only piece of furniture I still own is an exquisite bookshelf my dad made for me many years ago. I sold every single piece of furniture I had except for the one piece of furniture that didn’t cost me a dime. I even sold all the books that sat in it but I kept the bookshelf. Homemade items are always more valuable than anything you buy. How many people do you know in credit card debt for buying furniture? Don’t be like those dummies.
Buy for Value: Being thrifty isn’t the same thing as being stingy. Being thrifty means being smart with your money, knowing when to spend it and when to save it. For items that will last you a very, very long time it’s preferable to spend the money and purchase the value. Some items will be more expensive upfront but they will hold their value and you will not have to continuously re-purchase them. Electronics will always break at some point so there is no point in spending top dollar.
Example: My safety razor was certainly more expensive than a disposable razor but I will never again buy a razor, spending that money is no issue. High quality cookware can last you a lifetime. That new high tech phone will last you maybe a year.
If you don’t have the cash money, don’t buy it. Debt is slavery.
What is hard work anyway? Somebody types harder than you? Somebody makes YouTube videos harder than you?
See, hard work is just a way to not do any actual work. It’s just a thing you say… Oh, I’m a hard worker, bro. I work so hard. He just works harder than you. You’re just jealous because he works harder than you.
How does anybody work harder than you? You’re either working or not working.
Somebody works more than you. Nobody works harder than you.
You hear this bullshit about people in shape, and people accused them of steroids, and some dorks will say…
“No, he just works hard in the gym. He just does dumbbell curls really hard and that’s how he got that physique.
Wasn’t because he in the gym every day for 10 years.
Wasn’t because he took steroids, it’s because he did fucking dumbbell curls harder than anyone else.”
But I’ve illustrated my point that hard work is ‑‑ it’s a fairytale. It’s not real. It’s not how you get success.
PS – Consistent content is the key to making money online. Step one is Badnet, step two is consistent content, and step three….? As the girls in Thailand like to say, up to you.
He is the high energy entrepreneur that makes average Joes feel like total failures.
‘Some people are lucky’ is what you think to yourself. ‘How can someone be so energetic’ you wonder.
‘It’s not like normal people have the energy to work 16 hours per day. It’s too much!’
Soon you will learn you do have the energy, you just haven’t used it correctly. Here’s how you use your energy correctly…
16 Rules Of The High Energy Entrepreneur
1. This one thing generates energy better than any stimulant in the world
The #1 thing that generates energy better than anything in the world is… ENTHUSIASM.
Enthusiasm is the precursor for energy.
No enthusiasm = no energy. Big enthusiasm = big energy.
No matter how much sleep you got, how many calories you ate, none of it matters of you don’t have enthusiasm.
Let me explain… Let’s say there are two men. One man is a successful entrepreneur and the other “man” is a dork who plays video games.
The entrepreneur works 12-16 hours per day building his business and does basically nothing else.
The dork plays video games for 12-16 hours per day and does basically nothing else.
They both spend 12-16 hours per day doing what they are enthusiastic about.
Both the dork and the high energy entrepreneur have the enthusiasm to spend 12-16 hours per day doing what they enjoy doing.
See, they both have high energy. The dork focuses his energy on a game that gives him no benefit or return.
2. The high energy entrepreneur focuses his energy on another game…
The high energy entrepreneur focuses his vital energy on the game of damn good business.
In the game of damn good business you keep score the same way you keep score in video games… by making it to a new level.
These males both spend 12-16 hours per day doing what they love to do but only the entrepreneur is rewarded externally, the game player is only rewarded in virtual reality.
The entrepreneur spends his energy on business and the dork spends his energy on games, never “having the energy” to start a business… because he spent his energy playing video games.
They both have enthusiasm, the precursor to energy, it just has to be redirected.
3. ‘I wish I could start a business but I just don’t have the energy.’
Ever say that?
If so you were right, you don’t have the energy. But you could have the energy.
You just have to realize that energy is like money.
A business costs money to open, doesn’t it? If you want to open a business you have to pay the money to open the business.
If you don’t have the money, because you spent it somewhere else, then you cannot open a business … because you spent the money elsewhere and now you don’t have any money.
But if you decide to not spend the money elsewhere, and only spend the money on the new business, then you will have the money to start the business.
Energy works the same way that money works. If you spend too much energy doing activity A, you will not have enough energy for activity B.
We all have energy, to varying degrees, but what separates the high energy entrepreneurs from the low-energy do-nothings is where we spend our energy.
If you spend your energy in one place (like video games, sex, television) then you will not have the energy to build a damn good business.
If you spend your energy playing video games of course you will not have the energy to focus on business.
Energy is not infinite, energy is finite so spend your energy where it counts.
And the only thing that counts is damn good business.
4. Realize that you DO have the energy
You must recognize that if you have some sort of passion then you do in fact have enthusiasm.
Enthusiasm is where energy comes from. There is NO energy without first having enthusiasm.
You must realize that you have both enthusiasm and energy… but you aren’t careful with your energy spending and you’re spending it in the wrong place.
Energy is like money, if you spend it doing activity A then you will not have enough energy to spend it on Activity B (in this instance B is for Business and A is for Asshole).
If you spent all your energy on being an asshole you will not have any energy left for business. So what the heck do you do?
5. The difference between average people and high energy entrepreneurs is…
The difference between average assholes and brilliant businessmen is… FOCUSED ENERGY.
People who sit around all day playing video games focus their energy in the wrong place. YES! In the wrong place.
Playing video games all day is a waste of time… but so is doing a lot of other things like working jobs you hate.
Everyone has the energy, we just spend the energy in different places.
We all have sexual energy. How we use that sexual energy is the key. Many “people” just fuck all the time and waste the benefits of sexual transmutation.
The smart and the driven use their sexual energy and re-route it to business.
This does not mean you can never have sex, it means you use that primal energy that everyone has and you re-route it to damn good business.
The entrepreneur focuses his energy were it will give him life benefits while the video games gets only virtual reality benefits.
Think of energy as money. To start a business costs money — If you want to start a business you have to pay for it.
If you have the money then you can spend it on the new business. If you don’t have the money because spent your money elsewhere then you obviously cannot pay for your new business.
So the solution is to save your “money” so you can buy what counts. If you didn’t spend that money elsewhere then you would have that money for your new business.
Don’t spend your energy anywhere else but on damn good business.
It’s easy to spend your energy on business when you realize business is the funnest game God ever made and the benefits are real (and great).
7. BUILDING A BUSINESS TAKES FOCUSED ENERGY!
You cannot give away your energy to lesser tasks if you wish to do something big and great — like build a damn good business.
You have to save your energy for where it counts.
Do you know what cyclists who compete in grueling bike races like Tour de France do when they aren’t training or racing?
They do nothing.
They save every ounce of energy for where it counts — riding up and down mountains.
Cyclists notoriously hate stairs because stairs rob them of energy they may need on a grueling climb. Some cyclists even make their teams CARRY them up stairs.
Focused energy is no joke. You need big energy to do something big and you cannot waste your energy elsewhere.
I suggest you read the great book Deep Work to understand more about focused energy.
I only read the first chapter and I recommend every single would-be high energy entrepreneur read at least that first chapter.
Deep Work is a real revelation.
8. Damn good business is a never-ending video game
Video gamers have one thing right — life is a big game and that’s all it is.
In a video game, you make it to a new level, then you conquer that level and you repeat the process. Then you turn off the gaming console and you’re still a dork with no money.
If you ain’t addicted you ain’t accomplishing anything.
Non-addicted people get bored and quit. You won’t play a video game for 12 hours if you aren’t addicted and you won’t work 12 hour days if you aren’t addicted. Get used to it.
Boredom is the enemy of achievement but there is one way to kill boredom forever… be completely addicted to your game and don’t let outside interferences lead you astray.
If you play the game the way I tell you to play the game you will become addicted. How? Just like video games, you will always need to get to the next level.
Making 100k a year is great… when you’re making 50k a year. After you make 100k a year it’s total shit so you have to work towards making 200k a year “and then you’ll be happy.”
Then you make 200k a year and you realize it’s shit so you need to make 500k a year. When you make 500k a year you realize it’s shit money for poor people and you have to keep going.
It’s never enough and that’s the point — you will always be moving to the next level.
10. The #1 thing EVERY entrepreneur does before 9am
There is one thing EVERY entrepreneur does before 9am… what is it?
Hit the gym? Make phone calls to China? Go for a run? For Chrissakes what is it, Victor?!
Before 9am, every successful entrepreneur … WAKES UP!
When you are the most alert is when you are going to be the most prepared to get some damn good work done.
Since humans are most alert at 10am that means should should wake up at 10am? Heavens no.
You have to ALREADY BE AWAKE AND READY TO GO BEFORE 10AM to take advantage of your natural alertness.
It takes time to “wake up” and be alert. You have to be awake well before 10am. You will not be alert when you just wake up no matter who you are.
By 10am you should already have been awake for hours (and have been to the gym and back).
Your body wants you to wake up between 6:45am and 7:30am. That’s when your body is raises your blood pressure and stops your melatonin secretion (melatonin is the sleep hormone).
That gives you a good few hours to wake up, hit the gym prepare for the day, and take advantage of the time of the day when you are the most alert — 10am.
What if it’s hard to wake up?
It isn’t hard to wake up so that’s a silly question. When you want to wake up, nothing can keep you asleep.
Have you ever seen a kid sleep in on Christmas morning when he has new presents from Santa Claus ready to open?
Kids wake up on Christmas morning before the sun even comes out. Why? Because they have extreme enthusiasm for waking up.
If you have a problem waking up early it’s not a problem of “waking up” … it’s a problem of motivation and enthusiasm.
You need to be enthused to wake up, otherwise you will just sleep.
If that’s you, go ahead and sleep in. The rest of us will be wide awake and in the gym before you even hit your snooze button for the 3rd time.
When to work out? Work out it in your off hours — don’t steal focus from your damn good business just to work out.
Work out in your off time. Never waste the best business time of day — like 10am — on working out.
You cannot afford to not work out!
I don’t care if you like it or not, working out a must. You work out so you can build … ENDURANCE.
Cardio builds your body enough to handle long hours and heavy travel schedules.
Lifting weights like a man gives you strength and confidence – which allows you to communicate with HIGH ENERGY.
If you aren’t a fitness buff right now, you damn sure better become one, because you absolutely need… STRENGTH!
To get strong, quit wasting your time searching for routines that never work and just follow the routine that has been proven to work … BODY OF A SPARTAN.
14. High achievers always have to project this one thing… STRENGTH
Like a character in a video game, weakness is crushed and killed right away.
The high energy businessman always have to project STRENGTH.
Those same dogs will pee themselves and whimper if you project total strength to them.
If you can simply look at a dog and make a dog pee then you can project strength.
But if that doesn’t work out… how long could you run until you get tired and the dog catches you?
15. The #1 thing you need to have high energy all day long… ENDURANCE
Energy that lasts ALL DAY is not really energy … it’s ENDURANCE.
Endurance is the ability to just keep going no matter what gets in your way.
Endurance is not a natural, “genetic” gift. Endurance has to be built up from training.
You have to train for endurance. In the gym and in your business life.
Endurance is built up over time. You didn’t think you were going to just wake up tomorrow with extreme endurance did you?
YOU HAVE TO BUILD ENDURANCE!!!!!!
Amateur boxing matches last only 3 rounds at 3 minutes per round. A professional boxing match lasts 10 rounds at 3 minutes per round. A championship bout lasts 12 rounds at 3 minutes per round.
Why not just start every single fighter at 12 rounds? Because it takes time to build incredible endurance!
“In boxing, they start off 4 rounders. Then a year later they might be 6 rounders and then 8 rounders and then 10 rounders. And then finally they BECOME and flourish into a championship fighter. The reason you start off at 4 rounds and end up at 12 rounds 5 years later is because the body needs to get used to working at that rate for that period of time. You can’t do it in a 6 month period. You can’t become a championship fighter in a 6 month period.” – Eddie Alvarez, UFC lightweight champion
ou have two options: You will get married or you won’t get married. If you will get married then this article is for you. We will not review whether or not you should get married but we will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.
You’ve got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance (“love”) – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn’t about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If your wife doesn’t, or won’t, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you’ve got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
There are only two reasons a man should ever get married:
1) He wants to start a family.
2) His career or political ambitions demand he has a wife (he is interested in going into politics). We will not talk about this except to say that a political wife is for show and show only. For this article we will assume the reader falls into the first category.
There is absolutely no other reason to ever get married. Love is not a reason to get married. When you get married you sign all your power over to your wife – it must be of some benefit for you to do so. That benefit is to grow old with your family.
The goals of a marriage should be:
1) Minimize the chance of divorce theft and child robbery.
2) Maximize wife’s happiness with her wifely and motherly duties (the complete opposite of everything you will see, read or hear). It’s not about empowerment (or any other buzzword designed to kill the traditional family), she should be completely devoted to her family. True happiness for a woman comes from her family, it does not come from her career, or her “independence”, or her sexually liberated point of view.
3) Have a healthy, happy family with well educated, respectful children – non-sissified sons and girlish daughters with strong family values.
Be honest about what you want:
Most men don’t want an “independent, empowered” woman. That’s code for bitchy slut with a chip on her shoulder.
We all want a sweet, nice, joyful, feminine woman who treats her man like a King.
Bullshitters will suck up to the dregs and say the opposite in a futile attempt to get some action. These poor suckers get shit on the most and never understand why. Hear this gentlemen – women love men who go after what they want, who don’t take a woman’s BS seriously, and treat her like a woman, not like a man in drag. Women hate suck-ups as much as they hate stepping in dog poop on the street. To a woman, a male suck-up is less than human.
Divorce:
There is no denying that marriage is a very, very bad deal. When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money and your children. “No-fault” divorce really means “his-fault” divorce. If your wife is to decide she wants a divorce she can have all the benefits of being married and none of the drawbacks. Divorce is theft from the man. It’s a redistribution of wealth from men to women. She can live off of your paycheck via alimony and child support and she can keep your children and raise them in a single-mother or step-daddy household. She has the complete and full support of Papa Government behind her. In the eyes of the law she can do no wrong and you can do no right. And there is nothing you can do about any of that. That’s why you have to choose the right wife in the first place to eliminate much of that risk.
Steps should be taken to minimize the chances of divorce. You must take extra special precaution to choosing the right wife so you can avoid the possibility of a financially devastating and family ruining divorce.
When to get married:
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn money, think of what he wants in a wife, and settle down a little bit. The ages of 20-30 are the wild years but after the 30 year mark men will tend to settle down. Most men under 30 years of age aren’t mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with.
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn’t mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man’s marriage value is at its highest.
We have spoken about the need for a good woman here. In the following section we will look at how to determine good women from bad women.
The top 12 rules for picking the right wife to maximize a happy life and minimize the chance of divorce…
1) She should be young.
The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.
A woman’s body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman’s beauty really declines fast.
It’s a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years.
Women do not age well. “Cougars”, older women that younger men find irresistible, are an invention of the movies. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don’t be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don’t have healthy children. At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
But I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid.
Her IQ won’t grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
2) She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father.
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with divorce have too much baggage, use sluttery as a way to get attention from daddy, and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
3) She cannot believe in divorce or even imagine getting a divorce.
If she mentions the word ‘divorce’, what to do in case of divorce, praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a keeper. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more.
To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.
4) She must have the natural body type you prefer.
Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It’s unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman blowing up to whale proportions. If a woman was once very fat, lost the weight on crash diets and ultra-gym sessions, that weight will ALL come back plus more when she gets married.
If she has to constantly diet and go to the gym she is about to blow up like a balloon when the ring is on her finger and the vows are spoken.
You must pick the natural body type you like. That means she must have the same body type her whole life, never yo-yo’ing up or down in weight.
She should have a pretty face. When her body goes the only thing that will be left is her face and you will have to see it every single day.
5) She must be image conscious.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it’s a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife daily, you don’t want to be thinking about skinning some bacon off of her back to cook breakfast.
6) She must be family oriented and not career oriented.
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Ass-kicker doesn’t need two incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters.
I don’t want children.
Don’t get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family.
But I want a career woman.
Doesn’t matter, even if she is a career woman when you meet she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that’s what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in middle age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man’s world and always will be. A woman’s work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.
7) She must be a “good” girl.
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
Are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are sluts?
Yes.
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced in about 6 years and lose most of your money, possessions, and your children.
If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It’s going to end badly for you when you get hitched to a woman like this.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
8) She must have no problem signing a pre-nuptial agreement.
A Pre-nup probably won’t save you much money, if any, in the case of divorce but her signing a pre-nup does one very important thing for you: it shows you she is serious about making the marriage work.
9) She should change herself for you.
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform toyou. Her new favorite food will become steak and eggs, she will enjoy watching all six Rocky movies with you, and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
I don’t want a woman who flip-flops!
A woman who doesn’t flip-flop is a woman who does not respect you.
Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that’s what ‘keepers’ do.
10) She must look up to you and respect you.
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your money and your children. You’ve got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect – always.
11) She should not have any children from a previous affair.
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions.
Raising someone else’s child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else’s child you will be taking care of another man’s seedling and there will always be another man in the picture.
Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don’t settle for another man’s leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a stud, get knocked up, and look for a sucker to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left.
In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
12) She should be a smiler.
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any job she has, worth more than any other baloney modern women wrongly believe makes them attractive to men.
You want a happy woman. You don’t want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride.
Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
Things to remember:
American women have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace divorce. They have been indoctrinated and instructed to believe that their feminine instincts are wrong and bad. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who use psychiatric drugs and especially avoid women who go to therapy. Therapy only makes women more insane and teaches them to blame men more for their problems.
Party girls are for fun, good girls are for marriage.
If a woman cannot or will not cook daily, how will she ever care for children? She can’t. To raise non-fat children you must marry a woman who can and will cook.
As a man your options do not dwindle as you age. Your options only increase with your age and wealth. Conversely, as a woman ages her options plummet. That’s because men age gracefully, like a fine wine, and women age like milk. That’s why you must pick a beautiful young lady. It is highly advisable for a man to wait until he is a little older to get married. 30 years of age is an acceptable starting age for a man to start thinking of marriage.
Never, ever take advice from a woman on how to be attractive to women. Be nice, be yourself, be courteous, buy her gifts only works to put you in the friend zone and rightfully so because it’s pathetic behavior.
You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.
Don’t let your wife have complete and utter control of the home decor. You don’t want to live in emasculation-station with throw pillows and doilies and dolls and flowers everywhere.
Men are not women and women are not men. Things that women should do do not apply to men and vice versa. Double standards exist. That’s life.
You are the leader. She is the follower. Lead her.
When she loves and respects you she will enjoy all things about you. She will not demand and nag you into changing. If you smoke a big fat cigar and your clothes smell like an ashtray she will enjoy the smell. She should want to sleep in one of your shirts because it has your smell. That’s the power you should have over your wife for her to be happy and content.
If she’s a nagger before marriage then that is a sign you need to give her her walking papers. Nothing is going to get better with marriage, it will only amplify.
Marriage should be old school traditional for it to work. Pick a non-traditional woman and have some baloney non-traditional marriage and you can expect non-traditional results: Alimony payments, child support payments and seeing your children every other weekend.
Never get married just because. Have a purpose and a reason for the things you do.
Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
Dealing with the one who got away:
There are over 3 billion women in the world. The median age for women the entire world over is 29 years old. There are millions of women who are possible marriage material. “She” isn’t the one or your soul-mate or other baloney. There are millions just like her. And if she was your soul-mate you’d still be together. Let her go and move on. There are plenty more where she came from.
Personal recommendation from BOLD & DETERMINED to find a suitable wife:
Picking a woman from your own country and culture is always the best solution. Unfortunately, there is wholesale, systematic destruction of marriage and family in many 1st world countries, especially America and England, which has narrowed the options tremendously. One may have a broader selection if he were to go abroad to another country where marriage and family are still valued. But, and this is a big but, think long and hard before you marry a woman of another race and father half-breed children.
Remember, it is best to marry a woman of your culture and race. If that option is unappealing for the reasons described above there is a whole, big, wide world for you to choose from.
Conclusion:
Growing old alone and with no children to carry on your name seems a worse prospect than following this checklist and picking the best wife you can.
Civilization exists because of the nuclear family. Certainly marriage has been tainted in the last 50 years, to the detriment of all, but if you make smart decisions you can cut down your risk tremendously.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren’t going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Dogs are great. Dogs are the greatest animals on earth. We love our dogs as much as we love our own family and would do anything for our dogs – WHEN! – they are good dogs. Bad dogs are given away to the pound and abandoned on the street.
The difference between bad dogs and good dogs is that good dogs have a leader that disciplines them when needed and rewards them with affection when needed.
Bad dogs have weak owners.
Dogs are not Men. They should not be treated as men, thought of as like men, or held to the same standards as men.
They are dogs and they should be treated as dogs.
No matter how much you personalize a dog it is still not a man, it is a dog. It can never, ever be like a man, possess the characteristics of a man, can never lead man, and should absolutely never be thought of as the boss.
When a dog thinks it’s the boss it is very, very unhappy. A dog’s natural place is subservient to man. It must be led with discipline and love. A dog with no discipline will act out aggressively because it has no guidance. A dog with guidance and discipline is a happy, happy, content dog.
A dog does not have the mental capacity to make the decisions of man.
Your dog will love you until the day you die and will do anything for you, including die for you, but you’ve got to be the leader of your dog. You can never let your dog think it’s the leader.
When the dog think it’s the leader it will begin to constantly test you, it will lash at you, it will growl jealously at other people for getting too close to you, it will walk in front of you instead of behind you, it will walk in doors before you – it will think it owns you and not the other way around.
When your dog does something that pleases you you will reward the dog with attention, affection and possibly a treat.
When the dog does something out of line you will punish the dog with withdrawal of attention, stern correcting, ignoring, or a swat to the behind.
You will never reward the dog for bad behavior. You must never give your dog a treat if it does not explicitly follow your command and your lead.
When you reward the dog when it hasn’t earned it you have reinforced the negative undesirable behavior and now the dog thinks that not only is the behavior acceptable, but that the negative behavior is good.
When you tell your dog to do something (i.e. sit) your dog must sit before it can do anything else. Never, ever tell the dog to sit and then let it walk away. You must make sure that dog complies with your command at all costs.
You are the leader of your dog. You must always walk in front of the dog, never let the dog lead the way. Always walk in doors first, in front of your dog. It is unacceptable for the dog to walk in a door before you.
Follow these rules and your dog will love you more than anything in the world. You will be the entire world to your dog. It will look out the window and wait for you while you are gone, it will be excited beyond belief when you arrive home, and it will covet and do anything for affection.
Your dog will be a happy, happy dog until the day it goes to doggy heaven for it will know beyond a doubt that it had a master who loved it very much and provided it with the guidance, discipline and leadership that it needed so very much.
You can always tell the mark of a man by how his dog regards his word and guidance. If they sit when told to sit, if they don’t eat until he eats, if they joyously follow behind him on the leash you can be sure he knows how to properly guide them. And you can be sure that his dog loves him to death.
Dogs can make men very, very happy. We love to spend time with our good dogs. But a bad dog can be a miserable burden.
A dog can be an angel or a demon.
All a good dog wants to do is please its owner.
All a bad dog wants to do is control, and act out aggressively and viciously.
Thankfully now we know there is a way to turn many bad dogs into the good dogs that we love very much.
One man’s nightmare dog is another mans love sick puppy.
Unfortunately there are many, many bad dogs that are too far gone and cannot be helped. They have had no positive guidance and have had free reign to be bad dogs, have never received punishment for their bad behavior and now they can never recover. Those bad dogs should be left for the pound to deal with, they are not your problem. Those bad doggies cannot be helped and will only bite the hand that tries to help.
There are still many good dogs all over the world who love to be good dogs and are waiting for the right owner to take them home. If those doggies could say “I love you” they’d say it joyfully – but only to a strong owner. Those same doggies with a weak owner will growl and bite and protect it’s property – the weak owner.
The good news is that there are millions and millions of good doggies in the world and all the bad doggies can be ignored.
How can you learn to be a leader?
Think real hard about the parallels of dog training and your leadership role in human life. You may think I wouldn’t compare people to dogs, but you would be wrong. Human behavioral psychology cannot be subverted by women with fancy and useless degrees who talk to you about the need for communication. There is no need for open communication from a leader and there is no need to “work together”, there is need for dominance and an iron will.
If you, Regular Joe, have a problem with dominance and leadership you need to go buy yourself a puppy dog. Do not go to the pound and rescue an older dog who has already learned its behaviors. You want a puppy dog so you can teach it at it’s most important developmental stage. To get a dog who is old and is already potty trained, leash trained and can follow commands is useless to you. You must be there to teach the dog discipline when it is young and not prone to discipline.
It is a power of wills to teach a puppy dog to obey. If you don’t follow through with your commands your little puppy dog will do whatever it wants. This is why anytime you meet a single woman who owns a dog she always says the same thing, “My dog has behavioral problems”. These dogs do not have behavioral problems, they have no leadership or discipline.
Training a puppy dog is the greatest way to learn how to be a leader if you are not a natural leader. You can take the little tricks you learned about your puppy dog and use them to gain dominance in other areas of your life where you feel you have no control or you feel people are walking all over you. Remember, someone will always be doing the walking. If it isn’t you, it’s someone else. But if you’re letting an unqualified leader guide you then you deserve all the shit that you eat. No one is going to give you dominance or control if you are spineless. But if you have courage, heart, strength and an iron will you will take what is yours.
