You want a girlfriend but you don’t want an argumentative she-man. You want a girlfriend who is nice, sweet, modest and chipper. You don’t want “just one of the guys”. You want a girlfriend who looks up to you and builds up your confidence and makes you smile. You want a girlfriend who acts like a girl and makes you feel strong and powerful.

Is there a way to find such a creature?

Here at Bold & Determined I have previously spoken of “good girls” in a positive light. I’ll let you in on a little secret, a good girl is often really just a shy girl. A shy girl doesn’t usually act on her slutty emotions or on the whims of her slutty friends. Today we will share with you how you can acquire a shy girl of your very own.

Why you would want a shy girl

Extroverted girls are just too forward. There’s nothing for you to do as a man. They’ll just come running to you. You’ll ignore them for days or weeks in a row and they’ll still be calling and trying to see you. It’s too easy to seduce outgoing girls. You’ll meet them and then be in bed with them 45 minutes later. You don’t have to work for anything. When you don’t work for anything you don’t care about it, it means nothing. There’s no hunting involved so you just don’t care. A shy girl, on the other hand, takes some work to get. You will have to be the hunter rather than the hunted, as nature intended you to be.

There are many other reasons to pick a shy girl over an extroverted girl as your girlfriend. These reasons include:

• shy girls will often have far fewer sexual partners than outgoing girls
• shy girls are typically modest and ladylike
• shy girls are not overly opinionated, rude, loud-mouthed or foul-mouthed
• shy girls are easier to get along with because they are more eager to please
• shy girls will bring out the protective instinct in you
• shy girls will let you hunt them. You are the hunter and they are the prey. a shy girl will not typically make the first move, or any moves, it is up to you.
• shy girls tend to be more loyal, down to earth and pleasant
• shy girls are girlish, rather than “mature, independent and experienced”
• shy girls do not want to compete with you to see who can be more masculine
• shy girls do not typically have high career ambitions and are happier being around family
• shy girls are not typically party animals

Shy girls make things easier. If you are to have a girlfriend you should have one who helps you out and brightens your day, not one who is argumentative, bitchy, whorish or “feminized”. If you have a girlfriend but you spend all your time fighting with the bitch about what to eat for dinner then it’s time to cut her loose. Show her the door and find yourself a shy girl. If you’re Bold & Determined you have ass to kick all day, when you get home you don’t want to have to play that bullshit with your woman too. When you’re home with your woman you should be relaxed, calm and comfortable.

Shy girls do not tend to have sky high over-confidence and are more down to earth and downright easier to be around. I’m sure you have been spoon-fed all this baloney about girls needing more confidence, well they don’t. They have far too much artificial confidence and that’s one reason they cannot keep a boyfriend and one reason why they are mentally unbalanced and rely on pharmaceutical anti-depressants. A shy girl isn’t necessarily immune to all this, but there’s a good chance she is.

This is not a cool, hip, alpha-dog or “player” thing to say which is why I’m going to say it: I like to protect my woman. It makes me feel good when a girl relies on me for protection and security. When a girl is scared and grabs your upper arm for protection it will make you feel powerful. I do not have any proprietary instinct or care for a loud-mouth woman or an overtly slutty woman. I just don’t care what happens to those types of women.

Shy girls do not typically have the black girl attitude of “I don’t need no man. I’m as strong as a man. I’m just as good as a man. I’m just one of the guys.” or any of that bullshit. Shy girls tend to not compete to see who can be more of a man. They are usually content to be the girl and let you be the man. They may challenge you here or there but it is not a constant dominance game. I feel no protective instinct to a loud-mouth woman who tries to be a man and I care zero percent when it comes back to haunt them (exhibit A), but when I hear of a shy, modest girl who is harassed it makes my blood boil. Part of being a man is being protector of your property, that includes your woman.

How to spot a shy girl

Shy girls tend to….

• dress modestly
• avoid eye contact
• speak quietly, mousy
• walk with feet pointed inward
• giggle when uncomfortable

A shy girl is a bit mousy and quiet. She won’t be on the elevator yelling into her phone, she won’t be at the club dancing like a whore, she won’t usually leave her home dressed like a dirty bum, she will not make much eye-contact with strangers, her feet will point inward when she walks, her head will be held lower. She will giggle at small, normal things.

Shy girls are not typically party animals. So you won’t often find them at the discoteche, the honky-tonk, the hipster bar or the country juke-joint. If they are at the bar they are probably holding her friends coats and purses while her friend is blowing 5 guys in the alley.

A shy girl is not going to walk by you on the street and say hi and start a conversation with you. She may make eye contact with you and if she likes you then you will see, in a split second, her eyes brighten. This is an “eye smile“, it’s a look of hope and expectation that you will speak to her. When you get an eye smile that means a girl is interested in you.  If you catch an eye smile you should stop the girl and make any excuse to talk with her, (if you like her, of course). The simplest thing to do is ask directions. “Hey, do you know where blah blah is? Is there a food court here? My copy of the Holy Bible is worn through from so many readings, do you know where the bookstore is? My t-shirt has split at the biceps and I need to buy a larger one, do you know a good clothing store?“

Where to find a shy girl

Shy girls are everywhere that men and women interact. A shy girl isn’t a shut-in, she will have to go to the grocery store just like everyone else.

When you come across a shy girl that catches your fancy you will need to make the first move, the second move, and every move after that. Forget the silly nonsense of “Oh, if she liked me then she would make a move, or she would call“. That baloney is for girls, if you like a shy girl you make the moves. Period. As things progress she will open up more and suggest days to meet or activities to do, but that may take some time.

Religious girls are often shy and modest, but only the truly religious. Just because a girl says she’s “christian” doesn’t mean anything. Most Christian churches are emasculated “girl power” factories. Unless her church is one that is made fun of by all-knowing atheists, i.e. Mormon church, then it is highly likely she has no moral or religious values. If she is an active member of a cool-to-hate church like the Mormon church then she is probably not faking her religious devotion. If she is religious in the face of mockery then she is not one who gives in to temptation.

Remember: Religion is not the end-all, be-all of finding a shy girl. A shy girl may very well be an atheist, buddhist or a “christian”.

Shy girls are often Plain Jane girls

For purposes of this article we will describe beautiful as an 8, 9 or 10. A shy girl that will make a nice girlfriend will fall in the 6 to 7 range. These girls make perfect girlfriends, so don’t shun a 6 or 7 right away. All she needs is something that you love, something that drives you crazy. If her body is good and her face is good and it turns you on then it matters not if she isn’t an 8 or above. By the way, I will let you on a little secret I know: Makeup makes ALL the difference in the world and shy girls tend to not overdo their makeup. If you have found a girl who wears little to no makeup and still makes you hard then you have found yourself a treasure.

Shy girls will often be described as pretty, rather than beautiful or hot. You may luck out and find an ugly duckling, a girl that previously had acne, wore goofy glasses and braces, was fat, or was sickly as a child. These girls can sometimes grow up to be quite beautiful but have the mentality of the ugly girl. You have probably heard that fat girls make good girlfriends for the same reasons. The people that have this saying neglect a few things: fat girls are disgusting to look at and have bad personalities and are grossly over-opinionated. A shy girl will often be skinny or lean and they aren’t prone to over-eating.

All sounds goood, but where can I find one!!!!!???

Shy girls are everywhere. At the sandwich shop, at the bookstore, at the gym, at your workplace, on social media websites and on dating websites. A few months ago I was stuck overnight at LAX international airport. I happened to be stuck with a shy girl, a recent immigrant from Vietnam. She had been in the States for 6 months. She was a pleasant girl, petite, nice and chipper. She wasn’t beautiful but she was quite pretty and had a petite, lean body. I asked her what she did and she replied “nothing. I’m waiting for my work visa. Now I just stay in my apartment all day.” In Asia she’s just a regular girl, but in America she would have been a catch. If any guys had spoken to this girl they would have put her under lock and key pretty fast. This girl was free and certainly would have done all the cooking and cleaning necessary, as well as been a pleasant, easy-going girlfriend who would brighten some guys day.

But what do I say??!!

First thing you do is make yourself look good. Get in the gym, get some fitted, stylish clothing representative of your personality, get a nice haircut, shave your face or trim your beard, be clean, be handsome. You need to be someone she can look up to. You can say something silly. If she gives a mousy giggle you know you can proceed. If she gives you a whatever look or replies with sarcasm you can leave her be. A shy girls natural response is to giggle when she is uncomfortable. The presence of a handsome, well dressed and well muscled man is enough to make her uncomfortable. Saying something silly will do two things: It will break the ice and allow her to talk to you and it will let you determine if she is a shy, modest girl or if she is a sarcastic type who dresses ironically.

You can be a cool dork with a shy girl. Say dorky, funny things but be cool when you do it. It helps if you are a physical superman. If she says “I’m hungry” you can say something dorky like “Hi Hungry, I’m Victor. Nice to meet you“.

It’s OK to go slow BUT you must test her

A shy girl may very well want to go slow. She will need to be comfortable around you. She’ll say “I’m not ready“, “You’re too fast“, or “Can we take it slower?” and you’ll say “Absolutely. I understand“. There are two types of women who say things like this. Genuinely shy girls and used-up ex whores who are trying to trap a man. A genuine shy girl is, ahem, shy and doesn’t want to get naked and grunt like an animal for fear of being embarrassed. A used-up ex-whore is playing a game with you.

Your job is to TEST the shy girl and make sure she is true to her word. If she says “I want to wait” but then lets you ram her 12 minutes later you know she isn’t a “good girl” and you can start your search again. If she rebuffs all your charming advances you know you probably have a good girl on your hands. To test her you must touch her. Always touch, touch, touch. When she says “I want to go slow” you will say “Yes, I understand” but you will always be trying to get in. The more she resists the better she is. If she can resist a suave gentleman such as yourself that is near proof she is resisting every Joe Cool and Suave Johnny that comes long.

If she says “I want to take it slow” and you say “Yes, me too” and then actually do take it slow you are wasting your time. You need to be the aggressor. You do not want to be the testicle impaired shoulder to cry on. You want to be the hunter, not the bystander. Every chance you get, every time you are alone you need to make her as turned on as humanly possible. You want her to get wet and flustered. Every time she is able to resist and say “no” when she is hot & bothered is another point in her good girl favor.

You see, waiting is OK BUT ONLY when you have tested, tested and tested and she has passed all the tests. If you don’t make a move and just wait around like an idiot you are being played for the fool that you are.

How to date a shy girl

Your first goal is to try and get her to meet you at your high rise condominium for dinner and a movie and so she can see your above-average pool view. If she says “no” that’s a good sign, that means she probably isn’t going around to every guys home for “dinner and a movie”.

Your next option is to meet in a public place like a coffee shop, where you can sit and have a chat. This is the normal getting to know you thing, and it serves the purpose of getting her comfortable with you.

Meet up with her, have a nice time and then let her go. Don’t make plans right away. 2-4 days later re-initiate contact and make plans again. Don’t gush all over her, don’t say baloney like “Wow! I never meet girls like you!“, don’t be over-eager. Keep it light. Silly, dorky humor is perfect for getting her comfortable with you. You do not want to be aggressive with a shy girl until you are in bed. If you have muscular size she will probably be intimidated or scared of you at first, this is why you say silly, dorky things. This will turn down the apprehension and turn up the comfort levels. You want to get her smiling and laughing, but never be the clown. You don’t need to be extremely witty to make a shy girl laugh, she will laugh at any silly thing you say (if she likes you).

Drawbacks to dating shy girls

Obviously not everything will be rosy just because a girl is shy. You may find her shyness completely annoying. You may find out that you are not so patient. You may find yourself yelling “WHAT?!” every time she speaks because she speaks so quietly you cannot hear her. You may become completely annoyed that you aren’t able to sleep with her right away. If you are shy yourself then your conversations with a shy girl may be pretty boring.

No girl is going to be perfect, but if a shy girl sounds appealing to you then go get one. She may very well be annoying and she may very well turn into the best girlfriend you have ever had.

Tips to remember

It is better to have a shy girl as a girlfriend rather than as a sex toy. You can use extroverted girls as sex toys. It takes about 45 minutes to seduce an extroverted girl and an extroverted American girl will do anything on the first date, what’s left after that? To seduce a shy girl it takes longer because she will never make a move and the sex will tend to get better as she becomes more comfortable and in turn more submissive to you. Shy girls are not forward and they need to be hunted.

Don’t confuse shyness with mental instability or depression. There is a difference between a shy girl with a healthy amount of modesty and a sick girl with extremely low self-esteem. If she’s dressed in all black, is unkempt and dirty, constantly talks about things she hates or is an avid user of alcohol or narcotics kick her to the curb. If you feel like you need to save her you should rescue a dog instead, it will work out better for you. Find a shy girl and leave the broken girls alone.

You don’t need to act like a nice guy dweeb to get a shy girl. You don’t need to keep your hands to yourself and “respect her boundaries”. You need to be the aggressor, like a gentleman caveman. Shy girls aren’t touchy feely. You need to touch her so she can get used to your touch. When you walk through a door or up a set of stairs put your hand on the small of her back. When you walk through the shopping mall put your hand on the nape of her neck. When you walk through a crowded area hold her hand or wrist. When you ride in an automobile put your hand on her thigh. She may push it away this time, and maybe next time, but eventually your hand will always stay there. Eventually she will not only be used to your touch, but she will expect it and crave it.

Keep at it. Shy girls aren’t bold enough to say “I like you so much. I can’t wait to see you again!“. They probably won’t ever come out and say it. Simply assume that she likes you since she is meeting up with you. Keep making plans with her every few days to week(s) for as long as it takes. She may invite you to this event or that event and she may not, don’t let it worry you if she never initiates contact or tries to make plans with you. Let her come along with you in your world.

It takes time with a shy girl, so have patience. The wait will be worth it. You will always appreciate something you have worked for more than something that was given to you. If you diet for 10 weeks and then eat a cheesecake it’s going to taste better than if you eat junkfood daily. If you try to get a girl into bed for 8 weeks and finally land it it’s going to be better than the girl that gave it up after 45 minutes. I promise.

When you finally do get in you’ll have the pleasure of saying, into her ear, “you’re my property now“.

Happy hunting,

-Victor

The harder it is to get, the better it usually works. There’s a prescription only drug called Modafinil. To purchase modafinil you must get a prescription from your local and kindly Doctor or you must jump through some hoops to order modafinil online from an overseas pharmacy.

Modafinil is in a class of drug called nootropics, commonly known as “smart drugs”. There are about a million drugs classified as nootropics. Well, I’ll be damned if I’m going to try all of them, or even 10 of them.

I want the best and only the best. The best is not available on Amazon for one-click purchasing. The best takes a little bit of work to get. The best is hard to get for a reason: the better it works, the more limited it is. The shittier it is, the more available it is. That’s why you can get protein powder at every corner store but you can barely find pro-hormones anywhere.

I went straight for the best, Modafinil, and I was not disappointed.

I discovered modafinil through an underground entrepreneur’s forum. The guys on the forum loved it and went bananas over it. They compared it to NZT-48 from the movie Limitless. I read each and every word, I read each and every source, and then I went straight to google to find some of this magic.

And one day that magic showed up.

30 pills at 200 mg apiece. A one month supply from my kindly Dr. to test out. Some say you should chop a pill in half and take 100 mg for your first bite. Caution isn’t my style and I popped the first one around 8am.

Modafinil, it is said, is the real life NZT-48 because of how it helps you focus.

And, baby, they weren’t lying then they said it helps you focus. The focus on modafinil is breathtaking. It is like being on a train, going through a tunnel. There is no way to go but forward and there are no other distractions. Modafinil is the ultimate tunnel vision.

Other than the extreme focus on modafinil, there are a couple other benefits which I love.

Modafinil was developed as a drug to treat narcolepsy. Narcolepsy is a disease where people fall asleep randomly during the day, modafinil makes it so that they can stay awake. Of all the benefits of modafinil, staying awake is my favorite. You see, I often have to take a nap during the day. I can’t help it. I get tired and I fall asleep. I absolutely hate having to take a nap during the day, it feels like failure. While on modafinil there is no need to take a nap, there is no yawning, it is flat out impossible to nap on modafinil.

My typical work day is 8-5. Never before in my entire life have I been able to focus for so long, day after day, and never become tired or worn out. Having no need for a nap, having no need to rest, having no need to do anything other than focus on my task(s) at hand. I have now run out of modafinil. I have been out for several days. Yesterday, I was forced, beyond my will, and this is very hard for me to admit…..excuse me while I hold back tears…….I was forced to take a nap from 3-5pm. It was awful. 3-5pm is now prime ass-kicking time for me and to nap through it is absolute failure.

Years ago, running my first successful business, I would work from 9am-1pm and come 1pm I was beat. I was ready for a rest, or lunch, or whatever. I would usually have a break from 1pm-5pm or so when business would pick back up. Afternoon used to be the worst time to get anything done, now afternoon work is just as good to me as morning work. The prolonged focus is just unreal.

One of the other side effects of modafinil (and I do drink a ton of coffee, too) is decreased appetite. I am no stranger to fasting through the day but on modafinil I simply am not hungry during the day, period. I do not eat anything before 5pm. I am just not hungry and on the days I do eat, my focus and productivity decrease. I am as convinced as I ever was that eating SLOWS YOU DOWN and you should only eat when you are ready to slow down. Digestion takes away too much energy and all the fatasses in your local office should be proof enough that lunch is disastrous.

Since I am not trying to lose weight I will eat a lot after 5pm. Since I am a lean and muscular 200 lbs, give or take 1 lb each day, and I have maintained this weight while fasting through the day and eating after 5pm.

A typical day for me will be superfocus work from between 8am-5pm. Somewhere during the day I will swallow a whole glass of egg whites. Usually I will head to the gym at 5pm. I will have a badass workout. I will then come home and eat my first meal.

My first meal is almost always 7-8 scrambled eggs with cheese cooked in butter and 3 toasted english muffins liberally covered in butter. I will eat whatever I want after that and usually try to get in another glass of egg whites. My strength has not gone down on this routine, in fact, I was able to deadlift 535 lbs just the other day and 2 days ago I did partial deadlifts from the knees and went up to 7 plates per side, that’s 675 heavy ass lbs.

Last week is when I had my last pill. Since then I have been off and there are no withdrawal symptoms, there are no nasty side effects, there is just back to normal. There have been a few articles along the lines of “Modafinil Can Be Habit Forming” and here is my answer to that: No shit it can be habit forming. It’s habit forming because it works and it makes you better. Any serious man who wants to be better will do everything in his power to be better. Kicking ass is habit forming.

But……..

There is truly one nasty side effect of coming off of modafinil: You go back to normal. And normal is pretty shitty compared to mighty.

Official verdict: Modafinil A+

-Victor Pride

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Gentlemen, I got this message via email a few weeks back and it put a big smile on my face.

“Hey Vic, today was Day 30 of your life-changing program. I have to say it’s the most powerful and enlightening experience I’ve ever had. I’m a new man now. A REAL MAN.

Waking up at 5 am is easy for me now. I love to walk in the morning and clear my mind. I love to go to the gym at 6:30 am and give everything I have. I’m a Proud and Bold Lion now.

I take cold showers everyday. Not even a second of hot water. My muscles contract and I feel alive. There is this animal feeling inside, this true leadership that I’ve never felt before.

Gave up porn and masturbation. Feel like a million bucks, smiling to ladies, talking to strangers, getting compliments for my clothing style.

Adopted the To-Do list for the rest of my life. I was the biggest procrastinator ever a month ago. Now I get shit done everyday man. Kicking ass real hard.

Pushups helped me to finally show a little of chest definition. It was my lacking body part and I know someday it will be my strongest part. Thank you for your site, for your program, thank you for being direct, no B.S., and thank you for helping me discovering the hidden Alpha Man inside.

Cheers my friend.”

If you’d like to have a try at changing your life today you can pick up a copy of 30 Days of Discipline here.

-Victor Pride

From the desk of Victor Pride
Subj: How to kick butt from home
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“Wow, you’re so lucky“.

That’s what I always hear when I tell people I work from home.

As if it was random luck that did all the work for me.

I wear the same 7 cotton blended XL t-shirts every week. It’s not luck that puts the t-shirts on my back. I went out to the store and bought the damn things and I put them on in the morning. It was a decision I made. The shirts are nice and comfortable and stylish so I wear them. If I didn’t like them I would stop wearing them.

I never liked working in an office, so what did I do? I stopped working in one.

I made the decision to work from home. Luck never came into the picture. I took the necessary steps and got it done.

I’ve been working from home for 6 years and I’ve faced all the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the slumps and boons and I’m going to give you a bunch of tips and tricks to maximize your work time.

Today we will talk about how to get into that working groove and get all your business accomplished.

Getting in the mood to work is all a mindset. All you have to do is change your mindset a little and you can go from working sporadically, here and there, and getting little accomplished, to working like a pro and getting everything accomplished.

1) Be a pro

Just because you work from home, with nobody looking over your shoulder, doesn’t mean you need to goof off. Entrepreneurship is no place for amateurs. A pro gets in and gets the damn job done, no ifs or buts.

Since you now work from home (or aspire to) you need to think of yourself as a professional.

Getting the work done is the most important thing in your day. It’s more important than eating lunch with your friends, it’s more important than catching an afternoon matinee, it’s more important than shopping on Ebay, it’s more important that catching up on your zzzz’s.

Do the work first, get it done, then you have all night to do whatever you want.

Do the work, get things done, then play! But never play before work is finished!

Book recommendation: If you want to turn your art into a professional career you should read the book The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. He does a great job of explaining what it takes to go pro. However, I really only recommend the first half of the book, you can skip the second half when it gets a little too “spiritual”.

2) Early morning work

Remember, now you’re a pro. Pros don’t wake up at noon!

Early morning is the absolute best time of day to get work done. Before your competition is even awake you’re already up and kickin’ butt.

If you want to be a champion you’ve got to wake up like a champion.

Waking up in the morning and getting things done should be your routine. Good routine = good results. No routine = no results.

3) You need a dedicated working space

You definitely need a dedicated working space. I’ve been on the road traveling and trying to work. You know what happens when you don’t have a dedicated work space and dedicated routine? You don’t get any work done!

A dedicated office is the best option, but not everyone has a spare bedroom that can be turned into an office. No problem, just make the best with whatever space you have available. I started off on the corner of the bedroom making cold calls and getting deals done.

I’ve had a bunch of different home offices. I’ve had a dedicated office in a 3 bedroom house, I’ve turned a one bedroom apartment into an office by turning the bedroom into an office and turning the living room into a bedroom, and now I’ve turned my living room into an office. Anything can work, you just need to improvise with what you have available.

You need a desk!

What not to do – cluttered desk, facing a wall, back to an open door. This is not the power position, this is the powerless position and will cause anxiety. Your back should be to the wall so you can see everything going on in the room.

Desks were invented for a reason, to GTD (get things done). There’s a big anti-desk movement going around which is just silly. You don’t need a beanbag chair, you don’t need a standing desk, you need a regular damn desk and a chair. A table will work fine as well. When you’ve got yourself a table or a desk you’ve got an office and you’re in business.

The design of your home office plays a big role in how well you work from home. Great setup, great results. Poor setup, poor results.

Some tips for desk placement:

• Don’t sit facing a wall, like a mental patient.
• Don’t have your back to a door or window – This causes anxiety, always looking over your shoulder. Not to mention you’ll get a glare from the sun if you’ve got your back towards a window.

Your desk should be in the power position or command position, which is typically the middle of the room with your back to a wall and your front towards a door or window. You want to see everything that’s happening in the room, as any police officer knows you never want your back to an open door.

Keep a clean desk! Clutter is the enemy.

Remember: It’s one thing to have a desk at home to play around on and it’s another to work from home. If you work from home you will be spending a lot of time there so you need to turn your work space into the best space possible.

4) Plan your workday in advance

The biggest mistake an entrepreneur can make is to not plan his workday in advance. If you don’t have a plan, you don’t have a blueprint to follow. Without a plan you’re just winging it.

Failing to plan is planning to fail!

To make sure you get your business done each and every day you need to have a plan for each and every day. You need to visualize, in advance, everything you are going to do and what you are going to get taken care of.

Visualization is key for success.

How do you plan your day?

5) Keep and follow a to-do list

The best way to plan your workday is to keep a to-do list of everything you need to accomplish, right down to the smallest thing. Going into your workday without a to-do list is like going to a gunfight with no gun!

What are you going to work on if you have no plan or list of things to work on? You’re going to “work on” watching YouTube videos or playing around on social networking sites. I’ve been there a million times.

Have a plan and stick to it!

6) Outlaw any time consuming and negative habits

If you’re supposed to be working then keep things like TV, YouTube, and social media OFF LIMITS! until you have accomplished what you need accomplished.

Keep business time for business and pleasure time for pleasure.

7) Get yourself in a great mood

When you’re an entrepreneur working from home one of your greatest enemies is not being in the mood to work, or “not feeling like working”.

Not being in the mood to work can cause a real problem because if you don’t work, you don’t eat.

There are a few ways to get into a good mood and start your day off right.

Cardiovascular exercise

When you do cardiovascular exercise your body releases ‘feel good’ hormones called endorphins.

• Go for a 30-45 minute power walk
• Go swim some laps
• Hit the treadmill, stairmaster, or bike and do some low intensity cardio (pop some motivational podcasts on your phone and listen to them while you prepare for the day ahead)

You don’t need to sprint or run 10 miles, just get your heart pumping.

Years ago I’d wake up just before sunrise and take the dog out for a long walk and watch the sun come up.

Always take a shower before it’s time to work!

Never go to work dirty.

Cold showers

It’s impossible to not be pumped up and energized after a cold shower. To start taking cold showers, take your hot shower as normal but at the end of the shower gradually turn the water from cool, to cold, to ice cold! By the time you are out you will be pumped up and energized and definitely in the mood to get some work done.

Even if you don’t take a cold shower you still need to bathe and groom yourself in the morning. Sure, you work from home, but you don’t need to live like a dirty bum.

Act as if. In this case, act as if you’re going to work. Even if you’re just walking 15 feet to your living room.

8) Dress for success

Even if you work from home, always wear clothes that make you want to work and achieve. If you dress like a bum (sweats, pajamas etc..) you won’t have the same motivation as you would if you were wearing your business attire.

Clothes affect your mindset.

A man dressed like a policeman feels like a policeman, a man dressed like a businessman feels like a businessman, and a man dressed like a lazy bum feels like a lazy bum. That’s not psychology, it’s common sense.

Always dress the way you wish to be seen. That doesn’t necessarily mean a suit and tie but it probably doesn’t mean pajamas and a dirty shirt.

Always wear clean clothes and always be clean.

I personally never wear business attire, it’s too hot where I live, but I always put on fresh, clean clothes in the morning.

9) Give yourself a deadline

Deadline is a dirty word but deadlines light a fire and make you finish your work.

Allow only a certain amount of time to get ALL of your work done. This way, you will be racing against the clock and will not have time to stop and think about how much you don’t want to work. All you know is that it’s a race to the finish and you want to win!

Racing against the clock produces results, that’s a guarantee.

10) Drink lots of Coffee or tea

Whatever gets your adrenaline going is what you should drink. Get on a pot of coffee and get to work, keep yourself hopped up on caffeine until you are finished with the days work schedule.

I don’t like to eat much food in the morning because it slows you down while your gut digests it. When I do eat breakfast I eat a simple meal of 4-5 scrambled eggs. Stay away from bread, oatmeal, or pancakes in the morning. Those things will slow you down and you don’t want to be slow! You want to be alert and ready to go.

When you’re ready to take your focus to the next level you can try modafinil.

11) Focus on the end result

It’s not about the journey! It’s about getting the work done. Period.

Get your work done and keep your eye on the prize. Keep reminders of what your end goal is all around you, that way they remind you of what you’re working for.

Print out and paste your goal all over your work-station. Print out pictures of what you want. This will help you visualize your end-goal and keep you in the mood to work.

12) Go to the gym at night

I’ve been to the gym at nearly every conceivable time and I’ve learned one very important thing: If you work your ass off in the gym you are going to be tired and drained when you leave the gym.

What does that mean for the entrepreneur?

It means you should work out at night, after your work day is finished.

If you go to the gym in mid afternoon, and you lift hard, you are going to be drained for the rest of the day. I’ve been there and done that a million times and it’s no fun to get home at noon and be drained of energy and then be useless for the rest of the day.

Gym time is a must but it should be done after you finish your work day.

You’ve got a couple of bonuses hitting the gym at night…

Even if you work from home you will still get stressed at certain things and you’ll need an outlet for that stress. When you enter the gym in the evening you’ll have more strength and aggression than if you go to the gym in the morning or afternoon.

Since you’re going to the gym at night, after your work is finished, you’ll be able to relax a little bit when you get home and not worry about getting more work done.

EZ summary of how to work from home: Do the work. Then play. Then have a nice day.

Until next time.

Your man,

-Victor Pride

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I have a confession to make…

I used to be retarded.

I don’t mean literally, but what I mean is this…

I lost my ability to think, concentrate, and create.

I used to be a great blog artist. And then? I wasn’t.

For a number of years I was basically a functioning retard.

I couldn’t do anything that required brainpower.

I couldn’t do any mental work that exceeded two hours per day.

I couldn’t remember anything.

My brain was crippled and I couldn’t figure out why.

I would look at my beautiful work from the past in total despair, knowing that I did not have the ability to create more great work for the future.

My once proficient ability to create great work had left me, little by little.

Was it simply a case of writer’s block?

No. The difference between writer’s block and my total retardation is this…

Writer’s block is simply a case of being too afraid to do the work.

On the other hand, I had completely lost the mental ability to do any work.

I. Could. Not. Do. Any. Mental. Work.

Writer’s block is a joke compared to what was going on in my brain.

There was a very real physical problem stopping me from doing the mental work I knew I was capable of doing.

There was a mental fog that would not go away.

What agonized me was this question, “How can I make the brain fog vanish?”

I knew that when the fog vanished, I would be “back.”

And that’s exactly what happened.

The fog vanished and I came back from the dead.

I’ve found the secret of ultimate mental clarity.

My work no longer suffers.

I can create and create and create for hours each day.

I can read multiple books each day.

I can use my previously atrophied power of concentration at will.

I no longer suffer from what I earlier called my retardation.

I have all capabilities of my brainpower and then some.

I now have better concentration, more clarity, and better memory ability than I ever did before.

How did I do it?

It was easy and it happened by accident.

If you want the simple answer without reading too much (I know reading can be hard), here is how I conquered debilitating brain fog….

I stopped eating eating carbohydrates and I started eating only animal foods.

That’s it.

When I started following the carnivore diet my mental clarity came back with a fiery passion.

Yes, I’m serious.

When you’re stuck in the mysterious brain fog, you imagine all of these reasons why.

What you never think about is the most obvious: diet.

I can assure you, the way to achieve perfect mental clarity is much easier than you think it is.

The answer only seems elusive when you’re too dumb to think (like I used to be).

I will not present the answer to you in a clear manner that anybody can follow.

And if you do follow these steps, you will have increased brainpower by a significant margin.

I promise.

I also promise there is nothing you have to buy, no snake-oil cure you need to purchase, no “special report” you need to subscribe to.

All you have to do is this…

Stop eating sugar – forever!

Sugar is the #1 killer of clarity.

Sugar kills the brain like it kills teeth.

Sugar = dumb brain

Sugar kills memory and the ability to learn.

Sugar slows down the brain and reduces its ability to learn, remember information, and concentrate.

Sugar destroys neural connections in the brain.

What does that mean for you?

Stop. Eating. Sugar.

Forever.

Sugar is the killer of all clarity and creativity.

“So Victor, just stop eating candy bars, colas, and fruit pies?”

Not quite.

Industrially produced “factory” sugar, like the kind you find in your cola drink and your sugary snack, is more harmful than naturally produced sugars.

But…

All carbohydrates are sugar.

That means even carrots, oatmeal, apples, and rice will help to kill your ability to think.

Did you ever notice that all 3rd world countries are carb eaters and all 1st world countries are meat-eaters?

There is a reason for that.

Carbohydrates kill the brain power, and fatty acids from animal foods develop the brainpower.

The brain is 60% fat and it is saturated fat and cholesterol that are the brain’s building blocks.

Fatty acids found in fatty animal foods are the crucial molecules that determine your brain’s integrity and ability to perform.

Essential fatty acids (EFAs) are required for maintenance of optimal health but they can not synthesized by the body and must be obtained from dietary sources. Clinical observation studies has related imbalance dietary intake of fatty acids to impaired brain performance and diseases.” (source)

What does that mean for you?

Eat more bacon, eggs, beef, and fatty fish.

(Note: My fish of choice is mackerel. When I eat it, I seem to stay awake for hours with new ideas for the future.)

Completely cut out all carbohydrates from your diet.

When you do this you will experience the most wonderful feeling of clarity that you have ever known.

It’s so wonderful it feels like bliss.

It will feel like a dream after living so long with confusion, irrational thinking, inability to concentrate, and total inability to do mental work.

Total clarity doesn’t require drugs, therapy, or any other modern method.

It requires only that you eat the natural human diet.

See, it is not natural to be subsisting on carbohydrates.

The human can only survive on carbohydrates because of modern farming and modern factory production.

In our natural state, we eat and survive on animal foods.

When we return to our natural state, we regain control of our brains. We regain the ability to think, dream, ponder, concentrate, and visualize.

When we eat sugar, these abilities vanish into thin air. In the air they turn into brain fog.

*poof* there goes my brainpower with this seemingly harmless bowl of oatmeal.

As you know, the oatmeal is not as harmless as most people think it is.

Oatmeal is totally unnatural, as are nearly all carbohydrate foods, and would be totally impossible for us to eat in our natural state.

To achieve total mental clarity, all we have to do is be who we are and eat the foods that are designed for us to eat.

If you remember nothing else about clarity, remember this…

Follow the all-meat diet and completely cut out carbohydrates from your diet and you will thrive, both mentally and physically.

Sugar is the killer of our minds and bodies and we all know this.

What we have to remember is that all carbohydrates are sugar.

The only foods that don’t contain sugar are the animal foods.

It is those same animal foods that contain the essential fatty acids that the brain needs to concentrate, contemplate, and consider.

After you go through carbohydrate withdrawal, you will experience total mental clarity.

After you cut out the sugars, you will want to follow these additional steps…

Get better sleep

Lack of sleep kills memory.

During sleep, the body removes toxic compounds from the brain.

If you don’t get enough sleep it has a terrible effect on the brain cells.

Some simple tips to get better sleep include:

• Sleep in a dark room
• Wear a sleep mask to make it extra dark
• Turn of ALL electronics before you go to sleep
• Try to go to sleep earlier rather than later (10 pm is good)
• Make your sleeping room cold or chilly
• Get good exercise during the day to help make you tired at night
• Stay away from computer/phone screens at night
• Download F.Lux and install it on your computer, always use it when you use your computer at night
• Turn your phone to greyscale or “night mode” every night
• Have a set time where you completely cut off all phone and computer usage (8:30 pm is good)
• Put a pillow between your knees if you sleep on your side

More sleep tips can be found here: 16 Ways to Sleep Better (and Increase Your Productivity, Health, and Happiness)

Eliminate stress

Stress destroys the brain.

Chronic stress leads to a decrease in memory, self-control, and the ability to learn.

It also leads to irritation, anxiety, tension, and distraction.

Try to eliminate stress anywhere and everywhere you can.

I eliminate stress by simply being detached from the outcome.

My attitude is this…

• It is what it is
• It takes as long as it takes
• It will be whatever it will be

There is a great book regarding the destruction of stress.

It is called How To Stop Worrying and Start Living.

I recommend you read it.

Read more books and blogs

Reading trains the brain.

Reading activates areas of the brain that aren’t used at other times.

While reading, blood enters the areas of the brain responsible for concentration and cognition.

This effect does not occur while watching videos or playing video games.

Books give your brain a workout, tv and games give your brain a rest.

Just like you won’t build strong legs without squats and hacks, you won’t build a strong brain without reading.

3 BONUS TIPS

Cut out caffeine – It is a hindrance, not a help. Caffeine also kills your ability to get good sleep.

Never drink alcohol or smoke marijuana – These substances kill your memory, concentration, and vital brainpower. They also kill your REM sleep.

If your child has ADD/ADHD here is what you can do to cure it: Stop feeding them sugary foods like breakfast cereals, oatmeals, and sugar candy. Instead, start feeding them fatty foods like bacon, eggs, beef, and fish. Watch the ADD vanish. Poof.

Clarity Conclusion

It really is this simple: Give up the sugar.

This is how you achieve ultimate and unlimited mental clarity.

Eat the foods your brain needs and you will become a Superman of the mind.

I told you it was simple.

Have a nice day.

ManMacho

1) Do one task at a time.

Multi-tasking is great if you like doing things half-assed but if you want something done right you have to put all your effort into it. Only when one item is done do you move on to the next item.

Back in the days when I used to have a job I remember interviewers asking me about multi-tasking and I would lie and say “yeah, I love to do a million things at once!”

When I had a job I would always get my work done in about a half hour and then I had 7 and a half free hours to plot and scheme.

2) Make a to-do list every single night before bed.

This is critical! If you don’t know what you need to do how will you ever get it done? Write your to-do down on a notepad or word processor and cross every item off as soon as it is accomplished.

Make your to-do list manageable but not laughably easy. 5-10 quality items that need to get done is a good start.

3) When you wake up in the morning start crossing off items on your to-do list first thing.

All the mountains of work that we think are impossible only take a little time and effort to accomplish. When you have a clear vision of what you want to accomplish for the day it’s almost too easy to get everything done before most people even have breakfast.

Don’t erase your to-do list items, put an X beside them or cross a line through them. It’s an amazing feeling to see the big to-do list items being crossed off seemingly by the minute. A

t the very end you will see the fruit of your labors with your entire list done.

This is what your to-do list should look like after an hour or two…

-File TPS reportsXXXXXX

-Put payments in the mailXXXXX

-Review site traffic from the month beforeXXXXXX

-Kick ass and take namesXXXXXX

-Post article on Hyper-productivity

-Hit the gym with a vengeanceXXXXXX

-Respond to all e-mailsXXXXXXX

Easy as can be!

4) Give yourself a short time frame to complete your tasks.

When you’re looking at a time limit you have no choice but to get things done faster. If you’ve got a week to finish everything there is no rush, but if you only have 2 hours to finish your tasks you’re going to be working like a frantic maniac.

The goal isn’t just to get stuff done, it’s to get stuff done ASAP!

1) Having a job – Having a job means you are complacent. You know that you will not go hungry next month if you don’t work your ass off right now. You do just enough to not get fired to “earn” that paycheck and live.

There is no reason to go the extra mile and start building a business on your own. You’ll “do it later”. No need to do it now, you have a job. You’re tired from working. You just want to relax in your off time.

When you don’t have a job there is no off time. You are always “hustling” to make more money, get more deals going, meet more contacts, come up with more ideas. When you have a job you’re just waiting for Friday at 5:00.

Solution: QUIT!

After you quit your job (with at least one month’s supply of money) it is sink or swim. Time to put your feet to the fire and see what you’re made of.

It’s a virtual guarantee that you cannot be lazy if A) You don’t know how you will feed yourself next month and B) You refuse the cowardly approach of taking money from the Government which (if you have eyes) you can clearly see makes you amongst the laziest on Earth.

2) Television and/or Streaming Movies – We already know television rots your brain, fills your head full of silly fantasies with no base in reality, and molds your way of thinking into that of a mindless cow.

We already know that television makes you extremely lazy. It’s easy to sit down on the couch, turn on the latest episode of who cares and “relax”. You have two choices in this regard: keep watching the TV and never get anything accomplished or turn that motherfucking soul sucker off forever!

The same goes for streaming movies. If you have thousands of movies at your fingertips it’s just the same (even worse) than television. Now you have unlimited access to everything you want to watch. Get rid of that bullshit! It’s for dummies and suckers anyway.

3) Fast Food, Junk Food, Other Highly Processed Food – I’m still amazed at the sheer number of people who cannot put together the subpar “food” consumed with almost every ailment be it physical or mental. Garbage in is garbage out but no one can put 2 and 2 together.

All that nasty food is loaded with added chemicals, fillers, and addictive compounds that work to make you stupid, lazy, docile, fat, weak, and sick. Next time you’re in line at KFC or McDonalds I want you to take a look around at everyone else in line.

Do these people look like they’re in great health with abundant energy to take on the world? No? Do they look like they’re going to go home and eat their slop in front of the TV and go to work tomorrow to be able to buy more cow feed? Yes.

If that’s the life you want then go for it. Perhaps there is a “fat acceptance community” you can join and bitch about how your genes won’t let you do anything. Or…

You can eat nothing but real, healthy, natural whole food and see how fucking great you feel! Perhaps for the first time you will notice all this extra energy that you can put towards so many uses. Real whole foods include eggs, steaks, pork chops, fruits, vegetables, rice, potatoes, etc.

It does not include wheat thins or other slop posing as health food. Eat healthy to be healthy. Healthy people have tons of energy. Fat cows have no energy.

4) Video Games/Computer Games – Games take away hours of your life and for what? I honestly don’t understand video games after you grow up. It makes no sense to me but so many young men are addicted, literally addicted, to them it is disheartening.

Think about all the stuff you could do if you weren’t cooped up in the dark pretending to be a war hero or whatever stupid shit you’re playing this week.

Give the games up for REAL LIFE! Get rid of them, throw them away, sell them, uninstall them, just leave them behind. There’s so much you could be doing instead!

5) Porn – Porn is probably the worst thing for a young man because it makes him extremely lazy. Instead of going out to find a girl to have sex with he can just sit at home in the dark and live out his fantasies on the computer.

You never have to develop a personality or “game” because you can have everything you think you want night after night. Only problem is you are at home, alone, pretending. Think about how sad that actually is.

Instead of going out and trying to meet girls you’re sitting at home in the dark playing with yourself. I have to tell you it’s much better having a girl to play with than it is to play by yourself.

Solutions are quitting cold turkey, installing some parental controls that don’t let you access porn. You can tell yourself you’ll cut down, or do it in moderation but moderation is bullshit. You’ll either do it a lot or not at all.

What you can do instead:

Go out and start talking to girls. If you’ve been a dork or bad with women you’re whole life you will have to learn some game. This will likely become your new addiction, but that’s ok because it is a healthy natural pursuit.

Every man wants women (besides the obvious), women only want alpha males who can lead. Go make something happen with a beautiful woman.

6) Having a Lazy Wife or Girlfriend – Being in a relationship is notorious for making a man lazy. You get complacent, you order pizza every night, you rent a movie, you go shopping. Pretty soon it’s 2 years later, you’re fat, you’re working a shitty job, you look back and you’ve accomplished nothing.

If you’ve got a lazy girlfriend (watches TV all the time, doesn’t get you fired up to become successful) it’s time for some dumpage. She can be lazy all she wants but don’t let her drag you down too.

There are plenty of other fish in the ocean, find one that fires you up and inspires you (don’t confuse that with a nagging shrew) and watch all the shit you get accomplished with her support.

If you’re married to a lazy good-for-nothing I don’t know what to tell you except you were stupid to get married in the first place. After she takes half your stuff, pay her alimony or child support out the wazoo, takes your kids maybe you will wise up and find a good woman the next time around.

7) Facebook and Other Social Media – No reason to live life when you can pretend to be whatever you want. How many times have you been to some gathering where people should be chatting with each other but instead are on their phones commenting on Facebook? All the time.

You could be one of those people who live their lives through a computer and a phone. Why don’t you live your life the way it should be?

Commit social media suicide, get rid of all the Facebook nonsense and concentrate on tangible life experiences that actually make a difference.

Instead of commenting on Facebook about some triviality you can accomplish something. Go to the gym and pick up some weights, go for a hike, anything but living like a social media zombie.

The world is waiting for you. Go get it. Leave all the lazy zombies to their smartphones and laptops.

Sex is the driving force that makes a man do anything.

All great men of genius and power used their sex drive as fuel.

The process of turning sexual energy and aggression into productivity is called:

TRANSMUTATION OF SEXUAL ENERGY

Sex transmutation is the most powerful tool in existence when it comes to creation, invention, accomplishment, creativity, advancement, and achievement.

Napoleon Hill talked about the Transmutation of Sexual Energy in his ground-breaking book Think and Grow Rich. In the book, Hill noted that all men of genius used their sexual energy as fuel for their creativity. He also noted that Love must be included in the sex relationship.

“Sex, alone, is a mighty urge to action, but it’s forces are like a cyclone-they are often uncontrollable. When the emotion of love begins to mix itself with the emotion of sex, the result is calmness of purpose, poise, accuracy of judgement, and balance.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich

In laymans terms, the love of a good woman is absolutely essential. You’ve heard the saying “Behind every great Man is a great Woman“. It’s true. With too much un-focused sexual energy a man has no purpose or direction. Civilization itself exists solely because of monogamous marriages and the directed focus of sexual energy.

Take a look at your nearest ghetto for confirmation. You will notice that they (the underclass) indiscriminately have sex with each other, pop out babies at random while not in a nuclear, monogamous relationship, have no love between the sex partners, do not control their sexual urges, live like savages because their too focused on their sex obsession to do anything productive or creative, and have to be taken care of by Big Daddy Government otherwise they starve.

There is a famous quote attributed to an Indian Chief that goes like this:

“Indian Chief, “Two Eagles,” was asked by a white government official, “You have observed the white man for 90 years. You’ve seen his wars and his technological advances. You’ve seen his progress, and the damage he’s done.”

The Chief nodded in agreement.

The official continued, “Considering all these events, in your opinion, where did the white man go wrong?”

The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied. “When white man find land, Indians running it. No taxes, No debt, Plenty buffalo, Plenty beaver, Clean Water; Women did all the work, Medicine man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; All night having sex.”

Then the chief leaned back and smiled. “Only white man dumb enough to think he can improve system like that.”

What we have here is a classic case of over-indulgence in sexual energy with no focus to harness that power into advancement. The American Indians lived in this land for thousands of years with no advancement.

When the White Man came (with his sexual energy focused and directed) he found the Indian still living in Teepee’s, not wearing clothing, shitting in the forest, and living like savages.

An un-focused, sexually open society is a society that cannot survive the long term. If you disagree maybe you can ask an American Indian what he thinks about the assertation that sexual degeneracy will lead to extinction. What’s that, can’t find an American Indian to ask?

Every time you use an indoor toilet, get running water from your sink, cook your food on a stove, turn on the air conditioner on a hot day and get food out of your refrigerator you are enjoying the benefits of men who used their sexual energy in a productive way.

The decadent over-indulgence in sex is a one-way ticket to Failure village with a layover in Stagnation town . The smart men know this, the fools don’t and that’s why the lower classes behave like animals.

HOW TO HARNESS YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY

It is common understanding that over-indulgence in drink and drugs lead to ruin but it is uncommon for people to understand that over-indulgence in sex can lead to the same thing. Let that sexual energy build up inside you.

Don’t dissipate that energy haphazardly because that energy is sensed by other people and draws them into you like a magnet. Being highly sexed (i.e. having sexual energy) but not giving in to any and all desires is the key to success.

“This orgy of indulgence may account for the shortage of great leaders. No man can avail himself of the forces of his creative imagination, while dissipating them.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich

There is one thing I can guarantee – the most successful men in history have a huge sexual magnetism BUT THEY DO NOT ROUTINELY GIVE IN TO THOSE DESIRES and they never make that desire the goal. They don’t go out on Friday nights looking for some action. They don’t have to, this kind of behavior will bring women to them without any additional effort.

Let me tell you about how I started making money. For years I used to dream and devise money making plans but they failed 100% of the time. I used to think to myself (before I ever read Think and Grow Rich) that guys like Bill Gates, in order for them to make fortunes, had to give up sex and the pursuit of sex in order to make money.

I instinctively knew that but I would think to myself “that’s not worth it.“

Because I was unwilling to give up that all consuming desire and redirect that energy I never did anything worthwhile. Not until I had a girlfriend that I lived with and I consciously focused ALL that sexual energy into money making energy that I started to make money on my own.

At the time I had a full-time professional job. I had a business plan and desire and I quit my job. 30 days later I made twice my old job’s monthly salary with my new business. And I only did it because I focused my sexual energy into something highly productive. It worked and it’s the only thing that works.

SEX TRANSMUTATION RECAP 

Transmutation of sexual energy is the process of turning sexual energy and aggression into fuel for something bigger.

Sex is the number one reason we, as men, do anything. It’s always for sex. It is our biology, our DNA. There is nothing wrong with that.

But if we want to accomplish something grand, something great, we have to transform our sexual energy into fuel for something else.

• Don’t indiscriminately have sex. That’s what savages do and that’s why they will stay savage. This doesn’t mean you can’t have sex but do not make sex your primary goal.
• Don’t masturbate or watch internet porn frequently. This drains vital energy from you. You can see vast, positive changes in mood, personality and happiness by giving this up. Keeping your seed develops an animal magnetism that draws people to you, constantly spilling that seed repulses people.
• Consciously use your sexual desire and energy and focus it into your business and life plan. Sexual energy is damn near limitless and when re-directed can turn any man into a money making machine.
• Get a good woman who will take care of all your needs (not just sexual) – this will free your mind from having to even think about these things and you can focus completely on your goal at hand. The love and support of a woman is essential for success – most successful men had a good woman behind the scenes.

Sexual energy is the best fuel that exists – use it wisely. Save it up and watch your energy explode (heh).

The internet is a wonderful, phenomenal tool. One of the greatest inventions of all time.

Anything you want, the internet can provide.

Anything you want to learn you can learn online. The knowledge of the world is free to all or comes at a small price.

But we take it too far. We all do. We spend our time playing on social networking sites and pretending we’re cooler than we are, or we spend our time complaining on social networking sites. Or we spend our time looking at pornography. Or we spend three hours watching funny videos.

We spend our time in a fake world, a fake reality, talking to a computer screen, talking to other fakers sitting behind their computer. We walk outside and instead of saying hello to a pretty girl we bury ourselves in our phones, and it’s just as well because she’s even more obsessed with her fantasy.

All that time spent on baloney could be used to learn or earn. On the internet we can learn how to earn. Any industry we want to know about we can find on the internet. Any company we want to connect with we can find on the internet. Any industry we want to break into we can find on the internet. Anything we want to sell we can sell on the internet.

The first step to saying goodbye to the nine-to-five jive is research, research and more research and it can all be done from the internet. Learn, learn, learn until it’s time to earn, earn, earn.

We could learn from it and then put our plan into action and earn from it.

All that wasted time spent on baloney could be used to advance our freedom from the nine-to-five jive.

If you can’t learn from it or earn from it then burn it. Let it go. Light it on fire and watch it die. It’s a waste of time and it’s a waste of life.

If it has no tangible, positive results then burn it up.

Leave the social networking sites for the lonely people, for the lost people. It’s for the narcissists. It’s for the people who have nothing else. They can have it. Unless you can earn from it you don’t need it.

The old friends worth connecting with aren’t playing around on social networking sites all day. The ones who actively use social networking use it for whining, complaining, cry-baby’ing, and ego boosting.

They live online, but online living is no living at all.

Internet stars actively promote social networking for one very important reason – they earn from it. It gives them tangible results. It’s a cash cow because of all the people spending every day and night obsessed with their fantasy world. What the average Joe doesn’t know is that social networking is a big, big money-maker for the internet entrepreneurs.

“But it’s a great way to connect with friends and family!”

No it isn’t. People connected with friends and family for a really long time before the internet. Social networking is a great way for smart people to make a whole lot of money. That’s what it’s for and that’s how a smart person should use it.

There are three kinds of users of all social networking sites:

a) Earners: Big Dogs who make Big money from the social networking sites and who have the most followers

b) Learners: Small Dogs who are actively trying to become Big Dogs, they’re learning from the Bog Dogs how to do it

c) Cash Cows: People handing out money without even knowing it, the smart people capitalize on the cash cows

E-mail is a perfectly efficient way to say “hi” to friends and family and leaves plenty of free time to learn and earn.

The internet can be a tool of freedom or a vicious slave-master. Choice is ours. We know how the smart people use it.

You could be the man behind the screen making the money or you can be the man in front of the screen handing out your money without even knowing it.

There’s ass to kick on the internet – if you aren’t the kicker then you’re the one getting kicked.

Leave the positive and cut out the baloney.

If you can’t learn or earn from it, baby, it’s time to burn it. 

An accountability partner is someone you share your plans and ‘must-do’ tasks with.

Your accountability partner holds your feet to the fire and makes sure you complete what you said you would complete.

An accountability partner is someone who gives you encouragement when you need it, motivation to finish your tasks, and a boot to the ass when you don’t finish what you were supposed to finish.

An accountability partner is like a gym partner: he’s there to spot you on bench press, he’s there to yell at you to “push that weight up!“, he’s there to give you a helping hand on the last rep or two, and he’s there to tell you “you had way more in you! You better finish that set next time! Now spot me, I gotta hit 12 reps no matter what.“

An accountability partner is a person you do not want to let down.

With an accountability partner you must have something to lose for the plan to work.

If you respect you accountability partner a great deal then the friendly competition is enough fire to keep you going.

You can make friendly bets with your accountability partner. For example: “If I don’t finish this I’ll give you a crisp $20 bill.”

An accountability partner is there to call you on your bullshit. If you say “…well, I didn’t finish because of this and that…” your accountability partner is there to say “Brother, that’s bullshit. You know it’s your own damn fault.“

When you finish your big goals your accountability partner is there to say “That’s great, brother! I’m damn proud. What’s next on the horizon?“

An accountability partner can be a friend, a brother, a father, or even an internet stranger. But it’s got to be someone that will hold your feet to the fire.

You can meet up on Saturday nights to drink some Whiskey, go over everything accomplished that week (person who didn’t accomplish buys drinks), go over next week’s plans and action items, and then go holler at some beautiful blonde babies.

You can meet up for breakfast, lunch, or dinner and go over plans. Whoever didn’t accomplish what they said they would accomplish buys.

You can smoke cigars and go over plans after a Saturday Barbecue.

You can fire off e-mails Sunday evening / Monday morning to your accountability partner and review everything that has happened this week and what needs to happen next week.

You can fire off e-mails first thing every morning to detail what you must accomplish that day.

It doesn’t matter if you meet in person, speak over the phone, or use e-mail to review your plans and action-item lists, but e-mails are a must to send off your daily must-do list.

The goals have to got to be specific and clear. Nothing like “I have to be more confident“. More like “I have to say ‘hello’ to every beautiful blonde baby I see“.

I’ve got to get my company website going this week…

I’ve got to follow up leads on at least 10 new clients…

I’ve got to hit the pavement and drum up some business…

I have to specifically do such and such…

I’ve got to accomplish or die this week.

You’ve got to do the same for your partner.

You’ve got to hold their feet to the fire. Make sure they do what said they were going to do.

If they don’t accomplish what they set out to they’ve got to give you that $20, buy your whiskey, or, even worse, they lose their pride and got to gain it back.

You don’t need an accountability partner, but having one can be a nice asset in your motivation and accomplishment arsenal and can help to fully visualize and realize your goals.

Even better than having someone hold your feet to the fire is the active review you must do of your plans. The simple act of seeing your plans, speaking your plans, or typing your plans and the plan to accomplish them can make productivity sky-rocket. ‘To-do’ lists are an absolute must and having an accountability partner is a way to insure you prepare your all-important ‘to-do’ list every week.

The people who love to go to the gym and train alone won’t need an accountability partner.

The people who like having a gym partner will have use for an accountability partner.

Other people will fall in between. Experimentation is key to finding the best way to be productive.

The accountability partner system is based on the Honor Code. Honor is for men. If your accountability partner has no honor and lies to you to avoid the shame of losing then you’ve got to find a new one. The system cannot work without honor.

The accountability partner system is a way to keep your feet to the fire and accomplish all those small goals that build up to something big.

Keep your BIG goals to yourself. That’s for you and only you. After you put your plans into action is when you are allowed to talk about them. Never talk about big plans before they have been put into action. That’s what motormouths do. That’s what talkers do. That’s not what walkers do.

With the big plans you are your own accountability partner. You’ll hold your own feet to the fire and you’ll do or die because that’s how it’s done.